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Vaginal O?
I've never actually been able to achieve an O through vaginal sex, just other stimulation. Has anyone tried any creams or lubricants that have helped them achieve it? I've seen that someone mentioned Pure Romance, and I was looking at that..anything else? I also know it can take years of practice..I'm just impatient! :-)
Re: Vaginal O?
Are you opposed to using a vibrator during sex?
http://www.condomjungle.com/TROJAN_Vibrating_Ring_Multi_Speed_1_Ring_p/tj0011053.htm
I'm a 100% vaginal O girl, however I find that if it is slow and less exciting sex, ie he is trying to make love to me, but is really just sliding in and out slowly while in missionary position kissing my neck = not much happens for me. I like it harder and faster. I get excited when he is a bit rougher, or put me into the next position he wants to try. The faster he goes and subsequently the harder he goes, the hotter i get the tighter i get and the harder I ***.
Maybe just try all the above PPs suggestions and really get some excitement into it, try new things and find the things that speed up your heart, make your nipples hard and dialate your pupils. I find it impossible to *** if i'm not excited. Best way to find the things that will excited you - try everything! In a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere with you partner.
GL
The ring is fun, I'm a big fan.
It doesn't get in the way of sex (like a regular vibrator might) and my H says that it doesn't feel tight or uncomfortable at all.
We don't use it everytime, but if I am tired and want a quicky or just having a hard time warming up, it's a nice little boost.
To find your G spot:
Lie flat on your back.
First, you have to be aroused. Like a man's penis, the spot swells as you become more sexually stimulated, so have your partner get you good and going. Then, when you are in the neighborhood of an orgasm, have your partner insert his index finger (palm towards the ceiling) into your vaginal canal. Have him feel for the "roof" of your vagina, the side closest to your abs and away from the "floor" (your ass). Have him drift his fingertip over the surface of your vaginal ceiling, just past your pubic bone...there will be a very firm ridge and he will want to be touching beyond it. He should just firmly caress this area with his fingertip until you notice that a particular area feels a lot better than others. The area of mine actually feels different than the rest of my vagina...rougher like a kitten's tongue. My ex-girlfriend's g-spot rose up like a button -- impossible to miss.
So, once he is in the right area, he should stroke the area with a "Come Hither" motion with his index finger, soft fingertip against the spot. You will likely have a variety of sensations...a feeling of fullness, a tensing of your muscles and possibly a sensation similar to needing to urinate (since the bladder is close to that area). Don't worry, you won't pee.
This exploration might not get you immediate results (just like the first few times you were trying to have an orgasm), but the trying is awfully fun.
ditto vibes. ditto getting super excited hot and hard and fast.
first time i vaginal Oed with my FI was when he told me to be still, because the bed was hitting the wall. i couldnt squirm as much, he hit the spot and i about died! so just keep trying new things, but dont worry too much, as long as you enjoy the ride, there is no reason to stress over how you (or if you) get where youre going.