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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Lasting Help
I'm looking for some advice for my DH and I. When we have sex, wich is usualy 1 or 2 times a week he's way to quick in finishing. Yesterday this started to bother him after we were done. I have never said anything to him about this. He does get me to finish but his lasting or lack of is starting to become a problem to him. Any ideas on how to make him last a little longer? TIA!!!
Re: Lasting Help
He can try a few things - the "Something About Mary", where he masturbates earlier in the day, that way he gets his initial rocks off, and then can concentrate and last longer with you later. Or, you can try changing positions frequently while you're having sex. Don't stay for too long doing one thing, as this will stop the action just long enough for him to need to work up to O-territory again. Or, another thing, have him wear a condom. This will desensitize him a bit and hopefully make him last a bit longer. HTH! GL!
BFP 1/22/12 | Ectopic pregnancy found 2/14/12 | Methotrexate to complete m/c 2/15/12
I agree. The most common way to achieve that is for him to masturbate earlier in the day.
Does he acknowledge the problem? Or does he think everything is fine because he brings you to orgasm as well?
And why is this suddenly a problem? Chances are this is not a brand new situation...why are you now upset about it?
BFP 1/22/12 | Ectopic pregnancy found 2/14/12 | Methotrexate to complete m/c 2/15/12
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