What would you think?

Rachel2315

So, DH goes to bed about an hour after me usually.  I routinely screen the history on our mac to get back to old pages because our mac is an idiot mac and something's broken so it doesn't do the save addresses in the address bar thing.  I'm lazy and its easier than typing in the whole address.

Anyways.  In doing that I noticed that DH routinely goes to FB - normal right?  His first stop is almost always his (engaged now and has her own kid) ex girlfriend from a bazillion years ago.  I'm not going to say anything and I know it shouldn't bother me, but it does, a teensy bit.  Am I cuckoo?   

JackandCassie

I'm going to guess it's a curiosity thing. I don't have any ex's really, but I do have a people that I get in the routine of checking up on. There was a girl from college I checked up on almost daily about a year ago when she had a baby. Why? Because she's crazy and it was entertaining.

But saying that, I might ask him about it. In a completely non-confrontational way if possible though. Just to have a discussion about it so it's not some weird secret.

 

Rachel2315

FWIW I think it means I'm being BSC.

ilovedesi

I agree with the curiosity thing.  It would definitely bother me a little but I think it is totally harmless especially since they are both very taken.  If it is bothering you though I would just harmlessly bring it up, I don't think this would be a big deal.

KatieTaylor77

R looks at his ex's sometimes . . . I figure its normal curiosity and no big deal.  Heck, I look up mine sometimes too.  Looking at it all the time is a bit odd, but who knows.  He may see someone he used to know leaving comments on her page . . . maybe going to her page helps him find old friends he lost touch with.

Rachel2315

I think I'll just casually bring it up. He knows I have some trust issues (not his fault).

kdonedizzle

Rachel2315:

I think I'll just casually bring it up. He knows I have some trust issues (not his fault).

I think you are prefectly normal to feel weirded out about it and I wouldnt consider it BSC at all.  I'm not a jealous person but if I had found the same thing, it would really bother me.

 

Mrs.KaityJane

I also think it is curiousity.  If you have some trust issues though just bring it up to him.  It should be a big deal if it is just some harmless checking up on things.

Agentmysterycat@hotmail.com

I would for sure say something about it...but not make it a big deal. I agree withthe girls that its a curiosity thing.

DH and I both routinly check up onhis crazy ex and one of mine. Its funny.

Bellabride2B

I'd be upset. Knowing my DH, I would probably not get a straight answer, or he would deny it. I must say, I do check up on an ex of mine from time to time. I most likely would deny it as well, lol.