help sex is the same

mrskels09

My husband and I have been married for a while now. Our sex is great but it is the same thing over and over the same moves same lingerie the same places we have sex. I mean we have only been married for a short time help!

Lil'BlackDress

can't you just switch it up? Tell him you want to try something new, give a suggestion "would you ever want to try role playing? Do you have any fantasies?  How about if I tie you up?"  Or just do something, go get a school girl outfit and put in on to surprise him, Start playing with him in a place he wouldn't expect (even if that means just while you're watching a movie and having sex on the couch).  I'm sure if you suggest something he's going to be excited about it so just take the initiative and make the change!

TarponMonoxide

Why not "start out small" -- when he's in the shower, you jump in and let nature take its course. Or you invite him in when you go for your shower.

Lovestojam

One simple option for trying it somewhere different, apart from the typcial hotel or parent/in-laws home, is a SAFE parking deck. We live near a business park, where we work, and there are small parking decks linked to each building. Occasionally, we will drive-up to the top and have a little "from the back" action when the stars are out and we know pretty much no ones there. mostly weekends. Its adds an additional feeling of taboo in that the office towers over look the deck slightly, and though we know tehre is pretty much no one there, just the idea that you could get caught, but most likely won't, adds a little extra heat.