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Let's try this again....

Dr. D just called with my restults.  My APA and my NKC came back positive.  I am leaving out what they mean hoping that maybe that is what was bringing in the MASSIVE amounts of views.  A glitch?  Let's hope.

I'll follow up in a blog later.

What this means is that until i have an IV infusion, i will forever miscarry a child.  The procedure is extremely in depth and costs about $2500. 

I quit. I'm done. I am defeated.

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  • Seems normal now.

    Agian, we're all here for you sweetie!

  • Oh, sweetie. Big huge hugs from Florida to Louisiana.  I wish there was more I could say or do.

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  • No, seems crazy again...

    I'm very sorry to hear this!  Just know we're all here for you...

  • imagehudysgirl:

    Seems normal now.

    Agian, we're all here for you sweetie!

    Not hardly.
  • I don't know what to say, so I won't say anything. You know how to get in touch with any one of us if you feel the need to do so.

    I am sad.

  • Karrey I am so sorry. 
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  • Oh sweetie... I'm so sorry. I have no idea what to say except I'm sorry and lots of love to you.
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  • You can't quit at the last mountain. I know it's a big one, but just think of whats on the other side. Something you've longed so long for. Please don't give up now. Yes I know this is very upsetting news, so take a fews days to take it all in. Then decide what's best for you. And while you do that we'll be here, for you and anything you need.
  • I'm so sorry about the whole situation, sweetie, and I'm so sorry your posts are getting so much attention!!

    Big hugs to you. You know we love you, though I know it hardly makes any difference right now.

  • imageloregopar:

    Big hugs to you. You know we love you, though I know it hardly makes any difference right now.

    It makes a huge difference! and I am so thankful to have you all.  
  • imageKarrey31:
    imageloregopar:

    Big hugs to you. You know we love you, though I know it hardly makes any difference right now.

    It makes a huge difference! and I am so thankful to have you all.  

    Good!! I'm glad we can at least make you feel supported

  • I am so sorry to hear this Karrey.
  • Oh wow I am so sorry.  Life is so unfair sometimes. I just don't understand why. Lean on those who love you.
  • I missed the first one, but I am sending my love and hope through this one.

    It seems to me that there's got to be another doctor with another idea.  One that just says...oh, well, when we find this we do that and that works.

  • I'm so sorry about all of this, Karrey.  Just know we're here for you 110%, everyday, whenever you need us.  Lots of love and hugs.
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  • imageariajean:

    I missed the first one, but I am sending my love and hope through this one.

    It seems to me that there's got to be another doctor with another idea.  One that just says...oh, well, when we find this we do that and that works.

    Another doctor wont change my blood.  Unfortunatley a second opinion in this case wont change anything at all.  My body will still fight against me no matter who delivers the news.
  • :( Oh lady I hate this so hard for you :(

    Tons of hugs coming your way

  • imageKarrey31:
    imageariajean:

    I missed the first one, but I am sending my love and hope through this one.

    It seems to me that there's got to be another doctor with another idea.  One that just says...oh, well, when we find this we do that and that works.

    Another doctor wont change my blood.  Unfortunatley a second opinion in this case wont change anything at all.  My body will still fight against me no matter who delivers the news.

    I'm just saying...When the locksmith doesn't work, find a thief.  You'll get the same diagnosis...but maybe a different prognosis, a different option. 

    Maybe I watch too much Mystery Diagnosis.

  • imageariajean:
    imageKarrey31:
    imageariajean:

    I missed the first one, but I am sending my love and hope through this one.

    It seems to me that there's got to be another doctor with another idea.  One that just says...oh, well, when we find this we do that and that works.

    Another doctor wont change my blood.  Unfortunatley a second opinion in this case wont change anything at all.  My body will still fight against me no matter who delivers the news.

    I'm just saying...When the locksmith doesn't work, find a thief.  You'll get the same diagnosis...but maybe a different prognosis, a different option. 

    Maybe I watch too much Mystery Diagnosis.

    There isn't a different option.  My body will kill off foreign objects.  Nothing can treat it or change it but this infusion.  My doctor is the best of the best of the best in this area.  I trust that he knows what he is talking about.  Sure, I could see someone else that could tell me that this is all bs but I would continue to have miscarriages.  There is no fun in that.

     

  • I wish there was something that I could do other than tell you I'm sorry.  But like Sierra said, keep fighting the good fight and know we are all here for you.  You have gotten quite a few of us through rough spots and we are here to tough it out with you.

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  • ::HUGS::

    and WTF is up with the view count???  Freaks - stop stalking the poor girl!

     

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  • *Hugs* for you, gorgeous!
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  • Karrey, I am so sorry for this terrible news.  We are all here for you to scream/vent/cry as much as you need. Big (((HUGS))) to you.
  • I'm devastated for you. One, that it took so long to figure this out. Thank god you finally got paired up with a competent doctor, but why did it have to take so long? Two, that some major buIIshit is going on with the nest. I hope that someone who one-starred you meant that they was trying to communicate how unhappy they were that you are going through such a rough time, but who knows.

    Three, the news you heard today is just crushing. Take some time to mourn, be angry, kick and scream, cry and cuss. Just know that we'll all be here every step of the way and my wheels are turning of how we can help.

    It may not seem like it now, but I have 100% confidence that you will be a mother one day, and an excellent one at that. It may be later than you ever wanted, and it sucks that it's not on your terms. But that's why you have us around - to keep your hope alive when it feels like you just can't do it anymore.

    I hope you are taking some time for yourself tonight, and I'll check in tomorrow. I've been in Georgia for work all week, so I'm sorry I'm late on this.

     

  • It has already been said but I am so sorry to hear this.  I am so sad for you and I about cried when I read this just now.  I'm stretching my arms out to all the way from CA right now.  We are all here for you, love you , and care for you like a sister, again, I am so sorry.
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  • imageTWiNKfly:

    It may not seem like it now, but I have 100% confidence that you will be a mother one day, and an excellent one at that. It may be later than you ever wanted, and it sucks that it's not on your terms. But that's why you have us around - to keep your hope alive when it feels like you just can't do it anymore. 

    Karrey, I agree with Twinkfly. It sucks that it will  not be on your terms but it will happen because you want it, because you make efforts and because there is a way. I'm sorry to hear the news BUT the good part of the news is that there is still hope with this procedure you mentioned. Knowing you and after you made such a huge progress (even though the results are not satisfying) you will not stop and will not quit.

    Again, as Twinkfly said. Accept this fact, get angry, cry, do whatever you feel like doing, take a break, go with DH on a trip and just let it go for a few weeks. It may sound strange but I also have a feeling that you will be a mother some day, a great one. Lots of hugs to you! 

  • So sorry to hear this devastating news - but I agree with the ladies - don't give up, you're so close! It CAN be fixed, you haven't hit that wall yet that says you can't, so keep pushing for your dream!
  • imageOo KrisTy oO:
    So sorry to hear this devastating news - but I agree with the ladies - don't give up, you're so close! It CAN be fixed, you haven't hit that wall yet that says you can't, so keep pushing for your dream!

    This!  Karrey you are a strong woman!  Take the necessary time and measures to help yourself become stronger by getting through this!

  • imageKarrey31:
    imagehudysgirl:

    Seems normal now.

    Agian, we're all here for you sweetie!

    Not hardly.

    I replied and sat on here for a few minutes and the count was 8. People are so freaking dumb.

    Anyway, as I've said before and all the other girls said, we are here for you. Keep your chin up and know we feel for you right now and are always ready to lend a shoulder. I wish there was more we could do than just tell you.

  • I just want to scream and cry for you, love. I'm so sorry :(
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