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Dog question.....animal people help!
We just moved into a new house about 1 1/2 months ago. I have two dogs ages 3 (border collie/german shepard mix) and 2 (queensland heeler/beagle mix). Our dogs have NEVER been barkers before. The neighbors dogs were barkers and my dogs would sit there and stare at the fence. Well now all the sudden they have decided to become barkers. We got a letter from the county yesterday of barking complaints. Aparently they are barking during the day while we are at work (they are in a 12x14 kennel during the day, proior they had free run of the back yard). They sleep indoors at night. I would like to know what I can do to make them stop! I have heard the electronic collars do not work that well. I have seen the citronilla collars and I know they do not work (maybe a week they do), any suggestions? Why do you think they have started barking all the sudden?
Re: Dog question.....animal people help!
Were they in the 12x14 kennel at the old house or did they have free range of the yard? It could be boredom if they had a whole yard before, but are now restricted. I agree with munkii, it's just not a familiar place and they have a bit of anxiety.
Tomorrow try putting them outside in the kennel; the moment they start barking go outside, clap your hands, and give a good firm NO. Go back inside, wait a minute, go back outside and reward them for being quiet. Increase the time you go out and reward them for good behavior.
Before work, try taking them for a good long walk (an hour at least) or play some ball in the yard, this help release the nervous energy.
What about crating them inside or blocking them off in the kitchen when you are gone?
You don't suck, not at all. I think you are trying your best for the dogs.
Have you seen them try to dig up the new yard? Did they do that in the old yard? Observe them this weekend to see what they do. When you see them start digging, shake a can of pennies at them or spray them with a squirt bottle. Again, this behavior could come from boredom. So find some brain toys for them to play with.
When we first got our dog we crated him while we were at work (as required by our adoption agreement.) Our neighbor left us a note (worthy of passiveagressivenotes.com) and we decided to just let him run loose in the apartment and see what happened...he didn't bark and everything was great. Since then, we never crate him, even when we moved to our new place.
Munkii is right, it is an unfamiliar place to them and, in addition, a change in routine. Are you sure they would dig up the backyard? Do you or DH work close enough to home to come back during lunch and check on them/take them out of their crates if you decide to keep them in there?
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They were not in a kennel before. Our last back yard was very large and all dirt. One of the dogs is a digger. The new back yard is grass, rock, well pretty landscape and I will not let her destroy it with her digging (we have tried everything from burrying poop in the holes, mittens on her paws....nothing works she is a digger). I leave for work at 5:30am so everyone is still asleep. DH leaves at 7:30. So there is no option of putting them out while we are home.
As far as crating them in the kitchen, we simply do not have the room for 2 large crates. They are in the kennel from 7:30 - 3:30.
First, you do not suck just because you're not a dog person. You've had a bad experience, and that's that.
I think it's funny your H got a companion dog for his dog. I know it's normal, just reading it is amusing, though.
The long walk EMNI suggested is good but since they're not leash-trained, maybe your H can run wild with them in the backyard--that way he can also supervise and prevent your nicely manicured lawn from getting ripped to shreds.
Also, give them Kong's stuffed with frozen peanut butter or yogurt. Those should keep them busy for a while.
I just want to second this. You definitely do not suck and dogs are complex creatures. Our little guy is far from perfect, and we are far from perfect dog parents. We just do the best we can...but man, if Cesar Milan wanted to come over and deal with him I would not say no!
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#1- Toys lol. My dogs destroy EVERYTHING. Even Kongs. The bigger Kongs they do not like because they are heavy.
#2- Yes, I have seen the other dog dig in the yard. Kind of a funny story on that. I got to meet one of our neighbors last night. At first I thought it was going to be a bad thing. She came over to show us she got a bark complaint letter on her dog from the county and she was pretty sure who ever called it in had mistaken our dog for hers (hers wears a bark collar). I felt terrible because I know she is right. Well then lilly ran up to her and she said Hi lillly (dog)! I said oh how do you know lilly. She said because she is in our yard every afternoon. My eyes got big and I was like OMG I am so sorry! She kind of giggled and said no its ok! Lilly plays with her dog and she loves it. AND her two year old son is in love with our dog. I told her we would fix the hole and we were so sorry! She said no, don't worry about it because lilly is a great play friend to her dog......so I met the neighbor.
DH has never paid enough attn to the dogs. The poop waits 1+ weeks (usually 2) before he picks it up....again I refuse.
I have threatened this for a year. He knows how much it frustrates me. I am not sure what to do to show him I am serious. As many of you know from my previous posts my DH is a doll but does have issues with responsiblities (ie, paying bills etc). So this is nothing new. They are very sweet and loving dogs. They would never harm anyone just (one of them) would lick you to death and the other would keep your feet warm. I am sure it would be better if I kicked in but I have been very stubborn to this point....
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