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bedroom advice, please help.
Hi. My husband and I are having some problems with our sex life. It seems it is just turning routine and boring. It is turning into more of a rare occasion thing. We have only been married for a 1yr and 7months. Any advice to get more intamcy and less boring. Thanks!
Re: bedroom advice, please help.
Define "works".
As in "no other position makes me have an orgasm"? Or "no other position maintains his erection"? Or as "he won't try any other position"?
"Works" as in im not able to orgasm.
During the course of my "low libido" FI and I have tried many things to help spice it up and not fall into "routine".
Try leaving naughty notes for each other, dress up for "bedtime" every now and then, have him give you a massage- drink a little wine
, do it in random places, the bathroom counter?, shower? in the car? on the couch? role play...
FI and I tried alot of this and it helped.
I agree with this. Try doing different things. Do it even if you arent really in the mood. I know when I had a slump, I tried that and it actually helped pulling me out of my slump. Also, maybe try acting out each others fantasies. Try something you havent tried before. Or maybe even get a kama sutra book and try some of those positions and see if those work for you.