June 2009 Weddings
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J9 has been a ghosttown this week. So, who wants to keep me entertained/sane with a never-done-by-Choo-before game of ask me anything?
Keep my mind off the fact that one of my interweb friends just announced a pregnancy-- while using an IUD... 
From
Oy Vey to
Ole!
I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
Re: ...tumbleweed...
Well, in the spirit of your friend, are you planning on kiddos? When?
If you had to move away from the East Coast (specifically NY area), where would you move to instead?
What's the one thing you find most annoying about your hubby?
Lucy Elizabeth 10.27.12
I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
How's the shoe business going? Are you designing the shoes or selling them?
Have you ever peed your pants from laughing so hard?
I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
Oh to be young and stupid. Sigh.
I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
Favorite movie?
Favorite baked good?
What do you listen to most often - AM, FM or satellite radio?
Which do you prefer - Atlantic or Pacific Ocean?
Do you pay for most things with cash or credit?
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I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
That's so cool. What made you decide to go into shoes?
When you were little, what did you want to be when you grew up?
What job could they not pay you enough to do?
And, because I'm about to go get my breakfast, what is your favorite breakfast food?
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I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
What mortgage company do you have? Most mortgage companies don't let you use CC for payments. I am pissed that mine doesn't, althought we just bought a house so I am hoping that my loan gets bought by a bank that does allow it.
I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
We use Chase, but we hate them. HATE. Worst bank ever. Stay. Away. They bought out our mortgage last year and it has been a horrible transition. Ugh. To be honest, Alex handles the big banking stuff (I do the day-to-day), so I'm not sure how it works. I could ask if you'd like. But seriously, the stories I could tell you about Chase would make your blood boil.
I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
I am actually curious about the Chase stories. I have a CC through them on which I carry a larger balance than I would like. I had a certain APR for life and waddaya know? They changed it on me. I got them to bring it back down to what they'd originally promised, but then I closed the card and am continuing to pay it off.
YES. The same thing happened to Alex's business line with them. After 10+ years as a customer with zero missed/late payments, they unexpectedly changed his APR. Utterly ridiculous, considering how much of our life is now tied to that bank and our history of on-time payment.
I'll tell you one (of many stories) re: mortgage. When they bought it out, they reduced our home equity line, citing "a trend of depreciation of real estate in the US." So Alex called to inquire (we never touched the money, but wanted to know what was going on). They gave him the same answer. He responded with proof that our apartment has not depreciated, but in fact had grown in value exponentially since purchasing it in 2004 (by showing building statistics, average price/sq foot in the neighborhood/building etc). They wouldn't budge.
So Alex asked for a re-appraisal. They said it would be something like, $2,000. Alex obviously declined, but asked when a re-appraisal would be done without incurring fees. We were told a year. So... a year (to the date) goes by, and Alex calls again. We are then told that they have changed their policies (11 months ago) and that all re-appraisals are performed at the expense of the owner. Regardless of the fact that the same unit we own one floor up JUST sold for $400,000 above the original purchase price, Chase won't budge. And not only won't they budge, they are rude, disorganized, and incompetent in dealing with every issue we have encountered. Seriously, if it didn't cost us $30,000 to take our loan to another bank, we would. Which is why we're talking about selling.
Chase = on my shitlist
I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
That blows. Is the $30K some sort of loan transfer fee or something? Couldn't you try to refinance with another bank, unless your new closing costs with the refinance would be around $30K too.
It looks like if we refinance, the new closing costs would be pretty close to that mark. Ugh. FrigginA. We're not planning on staying in this apartment that much longer, so it just isn't worth it. But blows, absofreakinglutely.
I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
Do you eat meat?
What toppings do you get on your pizza?
favorite liquor (vodka, gin, rum)?
favorite designer?
Jeans or dresses?
Tea (hot or cold?) or coffee?
Favorite hanging out/downtime activity with Alex?
Proudest accomplishment?
"I watch what I eat" or "Diet who? I LOVE FOOD!"?
I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
What's your favorite word?
Do you speak French? Does Alex (I am assuming he does?)
How many babies do you want?
I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico