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I dont know why I'm annoyed by this, but I am
So I have 2 friends, very close friends that have off and on dated for a good 8 years. If he could marry her he would but she doesnt ever fully commit to him because she literally ping pongs back and forth between him and her ex. It's annoying but it is the way it is and he's stupid cause he keeps taking her back.
Anyway, I gchat with them everyday at work. So he has been one of my best friends for over 10 years she my friend for 8 ish and is now one of my BFF's too. He says to me today "She asked me to have lunch with her today, I dont know what to do, I want to go, but have a lot of stuff to do." So he comes back from lunch and tells me he had a jamba juice and a wheat grass shot for lunch, doesn't mention her. So then she g chats me and asks how my lunch was and what I had. I asked her the same. "jamba juice and a wheat grass shot" hahaa. So I said to her "You must have had lunch with B, or you guys are creepily on the same wavelength" to which she responds "Nope I just stopped by there on my way back to work from the hospital."
He then chats me and says something that she said when they went to jamba juice, which shows me she lied to me.
I dont give a crap if they see eachother, if they'd work out I'd be over the moon, so why the heck did she lie about it? Oh...maybe because 2 weeks ago she sent me pics of her and her ex at a party.
Even then... I dont care, this has been what they do for 8 years, I'm use to it and really stay out of it, but why lie about something so dumb.
Sorry I had to vent. It's the stupidest thing in the world and it annoys me. haha
Re: I dont know why I'm annoyed by this, but I am
Thanks NCM. I'm sure you are right. It has to do with her feeling ashamed that she is YET again, wanting him back. Last night she was calling me and texting me to the extreme and I feel like she was trying to see if I knew she lied to me. Like overcompensating or something.
Slightly less annoyed today but just dont understand the need to lie to me. Like I've ever judged them before the 50 million times that this has happened. LOL
the teen is dealing with stupid lies just like this from her friends - stuff that's not a big deal, really.
but, um, they're 15.
Wan... I know! I know it's stupid it just bugged me that she lied to me over something so stupid. I just wanted to vent about it thats all. I'm over it, I know that it was dumb to even let it bother me, I just dont like to be lied to, no matter what it's about. ha