Vibrator and orgasms - question

StewieG

If you use a vibrator to masturbate - how easily do you orgasm? Are you always using penetration with the vibrator, or can you orgasm with the vibration rubbing on you without penetration? 

I am having a problem (all in my head) with actually using a vibrator for penetration.

Flame away, if this is a flame-worthy (dumb) post for some reason. 

Honeydewchestnut

I don't know why this would be flame worthy.  I haven't been able to have a vaginal orgasm, I need clitoral stimulation.  When I use a vibrator I use it for penetration but mostly focus on rubbing.  I don't have any troubles.

mgm5674

When I use a vibrator, it has to be clitoral. Otherwise nothing happens. I can usually finish in a matter of minutes, but I'm usually just trying to help myself relax to go to sleep or something.

Violet_McPurpleson

I never use my vibe for penetration, just for clitoral stimulation. It usually takes me anywhere from 20 seconds to a few minutes to O.

ladycee

I'm pretty much the same as pp. I never use it for penetration, just solely on the outside. When I do this it takes just a minute or two to reach an O.

MissusTexas

I never use the vibrator for penetration, always for clitoral. It never takes very long, a few minutes at best. The only time I get a vagina orgasm is with the DH going very deep & slow  for about 30 minutes.

I don't like the way my vibrator feels inside me, but it's a cheapo and not really made to feel realistic.

StewieG

Thanks everyone. I thought I was weirdo because I don't like to use it for penetration, but now I realize that I'm not - hooray!!! 

tg08

I have a bullet to use on the outside (won't use vibes inside me). I don't orgasm during sex usually, so before or after we do it, I use the vibrator. I can usually orgasm in no time at all. My favorite thing to do is make out w/DH, then he kisses my breasts. When I get really turned on, I start using the vibe, and DH continues kissing my boobs until I am finished. It feels great, DH still gets to help, and he likes to watch so it works great for us.