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bhrett

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smock.smock

You're being ridiculous. Let it go.

agoodse

I don't honestly want to know his history in great detail, because if I do, then I'll think about it constantly and allow it to eat at me.  Talk about an intimacy buzz kill.  I choose to live in ignorant bliss, and it works just fine for me.

movingwater

I know my FI's full history he told me everything. He said if we were getting married there should be no hidden corners or skeletons in any ones closet. This is just his opinion, I don't mind not knowing I'm not a jealous person usually unless I need to be. Don't push him into telling you just talk to him about it. Tell him the truth that you thought you were his only and see what he says. Its most likely something stupid like BJ's or something. Good luck and keep us updated.

bubblygirl21

I know more about DH's past than most women would care to. It's been 4 years for you. Will the answer make a difference in how you feel about him? If the answer is yes, then you should probably let him know before you are legally attached to him... Either way, you are being extremely petty over something that might have happened over 4 years ago.

OpalineTowers

I don't think you're being petty. Maybe you just get jealous easily. If that's the case, you can't really help how you feel. I wouldn't pressure him into telling though. Maybe casually bring it up and see where it goes from there.

kmdixon

I know DH's "number", and that is all I care to know. I don't need or want details. And seriously, it doesn't matter. Obviously I am doing something right.