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Silly Question

I've always wanted hot and heavy sexxytime.. but I usually shy away - How can I make sexxytime more erotic rather than sweet and mild?

Thanks!

Re: Silly Question

  • There are a few ways to initiate something like that.

    You could communicate to him that you're interested in having it hot and heavy and too shy to initiate.

    You could ask him to give it to you like so.

    You could take charge yourself and get a little more hot all on your own: push him down on a piece of furniture, nip or nibble his lips or neck, grab his ass a little rough.

    Get creative. HF. :)

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  • Buy some lingerie that is not your norm. Put something sassy on & channel your inner sex goddess!
  • Games.... Sex games "force" you to do things you want to do but are too shy to suggest....
  • Drink some wine and relax!
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  • Show him this post Smile I'm sure he'll oblige. 

    Seriously though, why don't you try role playing?  You could play the dominant character so you have an excuse to be a little more forward or rough. 

  • I used to be the same way. During sex I kept imagining what it would be like if it was hot and heavy but I could never tell him. It got to the point where I wanted it so much that I was no longer satisfied with the norm. I was getting frustrated and one night the words just came out of my mouth. "You know, sometimes I just want you to f**k me!" It took him a second to register what I said. Then he happily obliged.

    Just go for it! You and your man will be happy you did!

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