T&P needed

jenth

Two family I know need T&P really badly...

First, our bass player in our band came to practice on Wednesday night and quit because he is having marital problems and his wife is actually entertaining thoughts of divorcing him.  They don't get to spend enough time together- he admitted it's more because of work (they are both doctors) and it was heartbreaking to talk to him about it because he loves being in the band and really didn't want to quit.  But he needs to put his marriage first and try to save it and we said we understood that.

Second, earlier today I found out that one of my best friend's, her cousin was 14 and died yesterday.  Even worse, it was a suicide and her mother found her.  The family is devastated, to say the least.  And I wish there was something I could do- the uncle treated us like family (always greeted us with a hug) even though we aren't.  This is NOT public, I'm not even supposed to know it was a suicide because the family is so upset.  I offered to drive with my friend out to go be with the family for the weekend- she couldn't go today with her parents because she can't take off work.

Please keep both of these families in your thoughts and prayers, and I did update facebook but kept it private because these are both very personal things the two families are going through.

Mrs.Bunches

Wow, how sad. Both are definitely in my thoughts.

14? That's just horrible. Worst part is, it won't be the only one in the nation this week even My heart breaks for them, because it's a difficult thing to continue with life after and understand. 

TheMrsR

that's so sad, on both accounts. T&Ps to those families

mamakrystal

Whoa...very tragic. T&P to both of those families.

marsh127

Oh, man.. Those are both awful to hear.  I'm sending lots of T&Ps to the families in both situations. 

tammy41208

so heartbreaking. :-( lots and lots of T&Ps for everyone involved!!

BeckF4

So sad for both families!!! Lots of T&P's!!!!!

jenth

Thanks, ladies!