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WWYD?
i posted this in the wfl post but need advice...
i met my sil at h&m for quick shopping lunch and on the way back to work....i drove thro side streets and entered thro a different buildings parking lot a car was backing out of a spot and it was a guy (engaged) and girl (single) from my work. the girl was fixing her make up. they both looked totally shocked...guess i just caught them having an affair.
the guy is much engaged, his fi and him just bought a house. ive met her before a long time ago. and the girl (homewreaker) he was just with sits near me!!
what do i do now!!??!!
Re: WWYD?
Nothing.
It is none of your business.
Save yourself the headache of having to deal with workplace drama.
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Blackmail the hooker.
Can't wait to meet my baby boy!
she just sent an email to my personal acct:
Dianna,
I am not 100% sure if you saw anything; but if you did please do not mention it to anyone. Thank you.
XXXXXX
OMG....I would totally say something then! haha What a biiiiatch! They were totally doing stuff. Do you know his fiance? If not, I would stay out of it...she might not believe you....that's a tough situation.
Oh sh!t. What a bimbo.
Can't wait to meet my baby boy!
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Whoa! Skank! I feel horrible for this fiance!
Just let her know that if anyone ask's about it your not going to lie.
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THIS times like 1000. but i agree if you are not close to the dudes fiance then i would stay out of it...
Dumb for doing what they're doing. And dumb for sending this. If you didnt see anything, you sure as hell would know what was up just from this email.
Anywho, I agree, stay out of it. No need to add drama to your own life. But like Sommer said, don't lie if confronted.
Sucky situation.
im in legal and work closely with hr on employee realted issues. i feel like i really should fwd the email and just say like 'idk why i got this'
im in legal and work closely with hr on employee realted issues. i feel like i really should fwd the email and just say like 'idk why i got this'
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Hmm... yeah you're right..
It definitely would suck to work with them after doing that. Is there any way to stay anonymous and let his fiancee know? I mean, if he's driving around with this biitch, it's not too far-fetched that someone else would catch them too!
I think just seeing you has tipped the scales against them. They have been found out. And it's gonna get them in the end...
I agree though--don't lie for anyone--not worth it.
LMAO...that is awesome!!!
LMAO!!! that is awesome!!!!
Yeah, that puts a whole new spin on this, IMO. It would be awful if this somehow came back to bite you. It is very inappropriate that she is trying to pull you into the drama - and I think it's probably a good idea for you to protect yourself in case the 2 of them pull something ridiculous. At the very least you should print out a copy of the email and save it electronically, in case you need it in the future.
I would haunt them with this forever!!
Drop lines like "Your wife is so lucky to be with you"
Never let them forget you know!!! lol
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That's a good idea Sommer! hahaha Maybe they'll realize that what they're doing is risky and not worth it with the repercussions. Damm baastard!!
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I agree with Sommer that it is none of your business, and therefore I wouldn't do anything. But I also would let him know that you also will not lie for him, and it might be best to keep his fiance away from you at work functions. Something to that nature.
That is a hard spot to be in though. But if you don't know the finace, I don't know if I would say anything. It could come back to bite you professionally if you get involved, in my opinion.
I also would print out the e-mail and save it, just in case they do try something with HR. I don't think I would go to HR with this though unless they continue to harrass you about it. It is not really a work related issue IMO, unless it begins to cross over into your work life.
But that's just me, and I can understand how it is a tough situation to be in, regardless. Sucky.
did that the moment i read it!!!
i agree to stay out of it. if you're confronted about it, definitely tell the truth. imo i wouldn't send it to hr, it might make you look immature/jealous/etc. like pp said, if it becomes a work issue, then you might need to take other actions. but right now i don't think it's interfering with your work. what a horrible situation to be in. i'm glad you don't know the fiance well, how difficult would that be?!
so funny how you're making comments to him about the wedding, haha.