Fall in love

Jillian*CBK*RJK

again. 

 

Do you ever wish that you could have that feeling of first/new love again? Or if you do, how do you keep it going?

 Do you want to fall in love again (with your DH or SO of course)? 

I love my hubby. And I do have the flittery first/new love feeling with him every once in a while. We both agree, our flittery feelings have gone downwards since Ry, but we're trying a lot more now to make it happen. But I want to know what other people feel and think about it. (blog post to come)

 

elyselowe

I still feel like I have the feeling I did when we first fell in love and definitely still get butterflies. After Brooklyn was born there was definitely an adjustment phase but now I feel like I am more in love with him than I ever have been (totally cheesy sounding I know). We go through rough patches sometimes but we just make sure to talk them out. I make sure he knows how much I love him and appreciate him for everything he does and he does the same for me.

Skittle128

I know what you are saying.  I remember the first butterflies with my husband WAY back when we dated the first time - our freshman year of college (which was really neat because we had been good friends for over 4 years before we ever dated).  I know that we will never have those exact feelings again with the newness and excitement, and the wondering if he feels the same way, and the sweet fun of all of that.  I do miss that from time to time. 

But I know that what we have now is SO much deeper and better.  And things definitely go up and down with flirty and fun with us.  Sometimes we find ourselves in a rut.  And sometimes we are sending lots of cute flirty texts and other fun things to keep that romance/butterfly feeling alive.  I still get the butterflies with him.  It's different butterflies, but still good. 

xxSOMMERxx

?A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.?
                                                Mignon McLaughlin

sandipluschris

I would say while the "butterfly" feeling happens less often, the "Oh my God I married the most amazing man" feeling happens a whole lot!!  Now that we're parents I find myself being so grateful that he is the man I married. I recognize that we're not always going to be wild and crazy but if we can grow old together and have history, that's enough for me!!

Tayrusso

I still have those feelings for C.  When I think about all the hard work and effort he puts into fixing our home and taking care of the pups, I just feel so lucky and I kind of wonder what I did to deserve him.

jware1985

I am a little late to this one but here we go anyways.  I still feel like I fall more and more in love with CJ everyday.  Even on the worst of days we can still make each other laugh, we never run out of things to talk about or joke about, and even just looking into his eyes I still get the butterflies and when he kisses me? OMG there is nothing better in this world to me.  CJ and I often will talk about how me met and what he felt and what I felt and how lucky we both feel about finding true love in each other and look forward to our long and happy life together.  We have been together for 2 1/2 years now and I still feel like the luckiest, most loved, happiest women in the world when I think of him.  When I think of him when we are away from each other at work or just out and about I get a huge silly grin on my face at the thought of him I guess to me I don't see our love dying or simmering down any time soon and for that I am grateful.