Green Living
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Looking for a natural solution
I have been suffering from a touch of insomnia lately (it's 3 am and I'm still wide awake!). I really don't like to take over the counter sleep aids. But I'm at a loss here. Any suggestions on something natural I can try to get my sleep pattern back to normal?
Mrs Honey!
Re: Looking for a natural solution
My DH is a terrible insomniac and told me for years that meditation would never work for him. He finally gave in and tried some he downloaded for free on itunes, and he's not had an issue with sleep since. He particularly finds the "body scan" type meditations to be helpful, and never makes it through one before he passes out!
Not sleeping is incredibly frustrating - hope you find something that works!
I've used melatonin with mixed results. It doesn't have any side effects (for me), though, and is relatively natural.
Cognitive behavorial therapy has proven results. It's beat Ambien in a published study. Essentially, you have to learn to defeat the thoughts in your head that make you anxious about sleeping (like, I need 7 hours or I'll be a zombie tomorrow, why can't I sleep, I need to sleep...), and then all the sleep hygiene stuff I'm sure you're aware of (no caffiene, don't exercise too close to bedtime, use the bedroom only for sleep and sex, etc.).
Here's one article with more info. I haven't been for actual therapy with a real person, but I've found reading about the technique really helpful.
This is what I do too, although I don't listen to anything I just recite it in my head. We do body scan meditation in yoga class every week so I know how it goes. I usually recall getting to my belly, but nothing below that.
I do eat kinda late sometimes... Hadn't thought about that. There is a lot about my routine that could be keeping me up, come to think about it. Mostly stressers.
Thanks everyone for the input!
Soo been there on the stressers thing. That's one of the reasons I take the melatonin, it just helps me drift to sleep without the drowsy feeling. But you might try making a new routine for yourself. Give your body 20-30 mins each night of turning off the tv/computer, drink some tea, wash your face, take a shower, put on some smell good lotion, etc. Once you do that every night it will both help you wind down and train your body that oh hey, it's time for bed now. Hope you start sleeping better soon, I know how much that sucks.