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A sex poll for a dull Thursday :)

My co-workers were talking about wedding night sex, so it got me wondering....how did your wedding night live up to your expectations?[Poll]

Re: A sex poll for a dull Thursday :)

  • I voted not mind-blowing but still a lot of fun :)
  • Is it bad that the mind blowing sex was 2 days before the wedding.  None was had the night before bc we were seperated.  But wedding night was not bad at all.
  • imageericandcindy:
    Is it bad that the mind blowing sex was 2 days before the wedding.  None was had the night before bc we were seperated.  But wedding night was not bad at all.

    We were kind of opposite lol.  Mind blowing the day before and the day after.  The night of, we were both exhausted and wasted lol.

  • I chose mind blowing. It was. Smile
  • We slept through wedding night sexy time...  The next morning shower, on the other hand..... Wink
  • I had to vote, not mind blowing but a lot of fun because I simply cannot have "mind blowing" sex when buzzed...but I sure do have fun!  And I sure was buzzed on our wedding night!  We danced on the beach until 2AM, hit the 24 hour grill for some jerk chicken and then stumbled to our room.  I would guess that our neighbors think our sex was mind blowing though!  heeheehee
  • We were both too tired. And I had been drinking champagne since like 10am so I could barely form a coherent sentence much less be a sexy vixen. 
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  • we waited until the next morning.
  • Lisa7Lisa7 member
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    We were both exhausted and drunk and only got like 2 hours by ourselves that night, lol Cool
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  • imageAlaskanAlison:
    I voted not mind-blowing but still a lot of fun :)

    Ditto.  We were both buzzed, but not drunk, so it was still a lot of fun.  After the long day, I'm just glad we got around to it that night! 

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  • Not mind blowing but still good. We drug our drunk, exhausted asses back to the room around 4am. DH asked if we were gonna "try" to have sex. My response was that I really didn't feel like it but we could if he wanted to. He said, if we don't Niki (my Bff) will never let us live it down. So we did. Once we got into it, it was pretty good.
  • I voted we were too exhausted!  I was so drained from all the excitment and festivities, that I crashed as soon as we got back to our room.
    Married 6/10/09 in Bermuda.
  • I have to add something...

    I totally forgot that we decided to consummate things during a "break" in the night.  After our reception dinner we came back to the hotel to change, did the dirty, then met up again with our friends to go out.  LOL, they were non-the-wiser, but probably suspected what went on.  ;) 

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  • Honestly? It was amazing Big Smile we had things going in our favor....the ceremony was at 2p and people we still jet lagged so most turned in early meaning we got plenty of time alone at our rental Wink
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  • I decided before we got marrid there was no sex happening the wedding night.

    The next day I was so exhusted (turns out you get sleepy your first tri) I slept pretty much all day.  So by the time we had sex, it was two days later, and my boobs hurt like a b!tch because I was knocked up.  I wanted to hit him everytime he tried to touch them.

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  • I was exhausted and totally NOT in the mood.  DH on the other hand really wanted to.  I was just going to do it anyway because it was the only night that our DS stayed with my parents and wasn't sleeping in the bed with us but DH got mad that I wasn't in the mood on our wedding night, and we actually got in a fight about it.  So it was pretty disappointing to be honest!
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  • Lisa7Lisa7 member
    Sixth Anniversary
    I forgot to add that my friends thought we walked away like 5 times to have sex and the sad thing is we were just running around, picking out pics, taking stuff back to our room, etc. Tongue Tied
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  • I wouldn't say mindblowing, but it was still really good! I wasn't super tired or super drunk but I think the expectation kinda messed that up a bit! Now, about 2 days after the wedding was great! And everytime since then! LOL! I honestly think there is so much pressure to have the best sex of your life on your wedding day that it really makes it hard! No pun intended heheheh

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  • Um, we got into a fight because I was WASTED. Everyone was going to the clubs and kept saying they werent so we could go home and get it on. I yelled at DH and told him that now we were married I wasn't allowed to have any fun. I stormed off and wouldn't talk to him.Oooops.

    We made up for it the next day and on our HM though. :) 

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  • imageKahtie41:

    I have to add something...

    I totally forgot that we decided to consummate things during a "break" in the night.  After our reception dinner we came back to the hotel to change, did the dirty, then met up again with our friends to go out.  LOL, they were non-the-wiser, but probably suspected what went on.  ;) 

    We totally did this too...after dinner, we went back to our condo to change out of our wedding clothes.  That's when we did the deed...and then we went out to a bar with a few friends.

  • The day/night before it was definitely mind blowing...we were so happy when they finally told us we were in fact getting married on the trip and that the wedding was gonna be held the next day, that we had to celebrate somehow.

    The wedding night we still had fun, but we were too tired and drunk to make it mind blowing.

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  • imageKahtie41:

    I have to add something...

    I totally forgot that we decided to consummate things during a "break" in the night.  After our reception dinner we came back to the hotel to change, did the dirty, then met up again with our friends to go out.  LOL, they were non-the-wiser, but probably suspected what went on.  ;) 

     

    LOL I went to a wedding once where the bride & groom did it in the limo on the way to the reception. But you could TOTALLY tell they had done it :)

  • I know this is going to sound bad...but, I honestly can't remember if we had sex on our wedding night.  If I had to take a guess I'd say we didn't.  I was so pissed off that one of DH's relatives ruined our day that I've pretty much blocked the wedding and anything that happened that day out of my mind. 

    The only good thing that came out of our wedding day was that DH became my husband!

  • We followed a lot of Jewish traditions for our wedding, which fortunately includes time for the bride and groom immediately after the ceremony to be alone.  We totally hadn't planned on doing it then, but we were in the mood.  
  • Special Snowflake...

    I'm told we DID have sex on our wedding night, but the last thing I remember was falling asleep and waking up the morning.  So I guess I slept right through it.  Is that horrible or what!?

  • imagebeachybride10:

    Um, we got into a fight because I was WASTED. Everyone was going to the clubs and kept saying they werent so we could go home and get it on. I yelled at DH and told him that now we were married I wasn't allowed to have any fun. I stormed off and wouldn't talk to him.Oooops.

    We made up for it the next day and on our HM though. :) 

    This cracks me up since it is TOTALLY something that I would do! :) Our was fun, but not mind blowing.  I told DH before we left that we were going to have sex that night, no matter what, so we did.  My Mom and G'ma were in the room next to ours, so we had to wait for the mind blowing on the HM! :)

  • we stayed at a hotel in downtown chicago the night of the wedding to be alone....we were so tired, but did it anyways...and right when we were finished, someone knocked on our door!! He said he was from room service, but we didnt order anything so we told him so, but he wouldnt go away! So we both had to scramble to get clothes on and opened the door. Apparantely our best man had ordered us chocolate dipped strawberries and champagne to celebrate!

     

    Very nice of him, but horrible timing!!

  • I voted for fun, but not mind-blowing. We made up for that on the honeymoon though. Wink
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  • I voted "other".  Our wedding trip did not have much hanky-panky going on. 

    Poor DH has super sensitive skin.  He broke out in major hives all over his body the 2nd day we were there - even his ears were swelling - it was very scary!  The on-site doctor had to give him a shot in his bootay and prescribe meds.  The only thing we can figure out is that he had an extreme allergic reaction to the chlorine and/or water in the resort pools. 

    Early in the trip (before the hives started their rampage) we did have the best we had ever had...once.  Other than that DH was in so much pain that he didn't want anything touching him - including me our wedding night.  Oh well, there will be other exotic vacations and romps in the sack ;)

  • Aw man, how did I miss this poll? We were both so exhausted it didn't happen. The night before the wedding we had gone out with my siblings, BM, and SIL/BIL. DH got really wasted and I was the DD for everyone. So both my DH and BM were extremely hungover on our wedding day. We didn't get home until close to midnight and had to be up at 5am to catch a flight for our honeymoon. However, when we got to Puerto Rico that day and finally had a chance to rest and be alone...Wink
    ~Sarah & Jason~June 12th, 2009~Siesta Key, FL~
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