Thinking about a WD redo

Miami_Bride909

I've noticed that every time I tell someone about my WD (wedding day) I get upset (like I could cry) about how it turned out.  Nothing went as planned, I never got a copy of the ceremony, and have no idea what DH and I vowed to eachother! I know it's almost been a year and I'm not over it yet....so, I've been thinking about a vow renewal. I want it to just be DH & I (that way there's no one to ruin it this time around).

I haven't brought it up to DH yet, but that's secretly what I am wanting from him for our 1st year anniversary.

sarlah

Seriously Julie, if you're that unhappy about it then I think it's a good idea. It sounds like something you need to do. It really sucks that your big day was ruined by a couple of thoughtless people... you should have a little re-do, just exactly how you want it now.

Catalina Island Bound

Whatever will make you happy about it, I would definitely say go for it!!  Something small and just the two of you would be perfect! 

I still wish we could go on that Alaskan Cruise with you guys!!

nataliejp519

I definitely think you should do it!

Mrs.S_0909

I think you should do it!

Lisa7

sarlah:

Seriously Julie, if you're that unhappy about it then I think it's a good idea. It sounds like something you need to do. It really sucks that your big day was ruined by a couple of thoughtless people... you should have a little re-do, just exactly how you want it now.

This exactly. I say do it, it's a fantastic idea!

siba1119

I agree!  I def think you should do it!

Miami_Bride909

Catalina Island Bound:

Whatever will make you happy about it, I would definitely say go for it!!  Something small and just the two of you would be perfect! 

I still wish we could go on that Alaskan Cruise with you guys!!

Thanks! I wish you could go on the cruise, too.  I'm hoping we'll have good weather and see some whales.

natalie115

I think it's a great idea! If it's going to make you happy and help you get past the fact that some rude people ruined your wedding then most definitely go for it!!

chickymel

I agree with all of the above- if its something you feel strongly about, you definitely should do it.  You should be able to look back on your wedding and vows and feel happy. 

jebuell

I think you should do it!  Just go on vacation and do a vow renewal with just the two of you.  I think they're still free at Sandals!

Miami_Bride909

I brought the idea up to DH and he was less than thrilled at the idea, but I think through the conversation he realized that it would mean a lot to me.  Since today's hour of conversation was focused on another topic I told we'd talk about it later.

Jaye - I'll have to check into the Sandals idea!  That would be perfect if they would do one for free.

DanielleB1978

I think that sounds like a wonderful idea Julie!

JenJune3

Yes I definitely would do it again if you are still upset about it! I hope your DH agrees!!