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What to do?
So I received an invitation yesterday to a good friend's engagement party on August 28 in the early evening.
I called another friend yesterday, the one getting married on my bday, and asked her if she knew what was going on with her shower/bachelorette party - I had offered to help plan it but the other girl also planning it told me August 14 and I hadn't heard anything. I kept the 14th free. I just heard and it'll be in San Francisco at a tea room at 3pm on August 28!
I'm conflicted - I want to go to both. I might be able to go to the tea, stay a couple of hours and make it back late to the engagement party but it would mean driving myself into San Fran, which terrifies me.
Which would you go to? I guess I can't go to everything and things get scheduled on the same days but I'm a little annoyed that the date in my calendar got changed!
Re: What to do?
I would go to the one that you had offered to help plan. I think a shower/bachelorette party is a more important event than an engagement party.
Engagement parties to me always seemed gift grabby, since you will probably be having a shower also.
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