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have you?

Has anyone ever had sex in a "public" area? Not in front of people of course, but like in a hot tube, beach or park at night? And how did you "get away with it"? : )  

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  • Over the 4th of July weekend FI took me on a 4 wheeler ride on his uncles farm and we pulled off into a grassy feild and did it. I sat on the seat and he stood. If anyone would have driven by on the gravel rode they would have saw it, but luckily no one did.
  • I did it in a parking lot but did not exactly get away with it as we were busted by the cops.
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  • imageFlashMeyer:
    I did it in a parking lot but did not exactly get away with it as we were busted by the cops.

    What did they do? Just tell you to move along?  

  • imageeaa18:
    Over the 4th of July weekend FI took me on a 4 wheeler ride on his uncles farm and we pulled off into a grassy feild and did it. I sat on the seat and he stood. If anyone would have driven by on the gravel rode they would have saw it, but luckily no one did.

    Good thing no one drove by! lol nice job not getting caught!  

  • MH and I did on a balcony in DR during the day.
  • twice....more recently while on vacay in cozumel. we had sex in the pool at our rental house. that wouldn't be such a big deal in and of itself, except that all of the surrounding houses were two stories and the other vacationers often hung out on their roof, giving them full access to a free show, but we didn't get caught......that i know of.

     

    previously.....my hubby just finished his training for the army and i had driven out to his graduation. we drove home but had to take separate calls. i couldn't wait the 8 hours it took to get home.....so we stopped a rest stop.(it was night time.) i sat on the edge of a picnic table while he stood in front of me and was conveniently wearing a skirt.

  • I have done this one a few more times that I really care to admit. When I was a younger woman, it was not uncommon for me & my then BF to have to find somewhere outside the house (we both lived with our parents at the time). There was one time around sunset at the park by his house. We actually saw his parents drive by, but they didn't see us.

    I think I was only ever caught once. I had been dating this guy I had really liked in HS. He took me to his parents to have dinner and then showed me greenhouse in the back yard. We were in the middle of a quickie when his younger brother walked in to tell us something... mortifying!! We stopped dating shortly after that.

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  • Quite a few times.  The most recent/exciting was our honeymoon; we were in Barbados, and for the first time had sex on the beach (really late at night), in the water, and on our balcony.  It's one of those moments where you can only hope you don't get caught.
  • -In the park on the play equiptment, it was raining a bit so nobody was there.

    -In some hiking trails (that time we ALMOST got caught, a bunch of people came up behind us, but we covered ourselves just in time.

    -Once when we were camping with a group of friends against a tree...we didn't think anyone knew but when we got back to camp H was grinning like a idiot and everyone instantly called us out.

    -and in the car beside a building...but that ones kinda boring so I don't know if it counts.

    -I really want to try it somewhere more public though, on a bus or plane or I like this balcony idea:)...or even just sex on the beach.

    just have some way that you CAN cover yourselves if someone comes...really though I think it's kinda worth getting caught;)


  • With my first real boyfriend, I lived with my mom and he lived in his college dorm, so we did it a lot in the backseat of my car, usually in his college's parking lot, which was less than private.

    Once an ex and I (BF at the time) stayed at a cabin resort and did it first in the resort pool, then in the bathrooms for the pool. It was a slow-ish season for the resort and we were the only people at the pool, so no one caught us. I don't know if you can call that public, but that's all I got. :p

    Pool sex, btw? Not so great.

  • Wow. Some of the responses make me feel like a real whore bag. We've done it pretty much everywhere, lol. I guess not everywhere, but we take personal joy in finding fun and provocative places to make love while out at events, work related functions, etc. I can't recall many concerts that we've been to where somthing didn't happen above or below the blanket. Parking decks are always fun, especially if the deck sits under a building, etc. And then, atleast as youth, there was the ever available Victoria's Secret changing rooms. To think about what a rise we used to get out of those, and today those seem a little stupid to me. Perhaps the most fun was our lord of the flies trip while in the BVI's. While at the spa for the day we picked-up a few hollowed out coconut shells filled with some type of mineral infused mud/clay. That afternoon we took our boat over to a little spit of a deserted island which was in the middle of the channel between Tortola and Jost Van ***. Needless to say, we stripped down completly, covered each other in mud and went to work. A couple of hours later we were still undressed, completly covered in mud, when a charter boat with about 50 cruise ship sheeple, on a day trip, came flying by less than 75 yards from the beach. We got alot of whoops and yeahs that day. Ahhh, good times.
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  • I haven't done anything like this in a long time, because it seems like every time we're in a likely spot, we have a 5 year old and a 9 year old capering around us.  It's just not a phase in our lives where semi-public sex is likely to happen.

    BUT... back in the day, DH and I have done it in a number of places including:

    --while hiking in the Valley of Fire.

    --at a big field party (a little away from the party), and much like someone above, H returned to the party grinning like a maniac and we were also called out.

    --in our hammock in the backyard of a townhouse where we lived.

    --while swimming in the ocean (also don't recommend -- all the natural "lube" seems to get washed away! ouch!)

    --in a friend's hot tub

    It seems like there were more places than that, but I might not be remembering all of them.  Ah, the good ol' days!

  • I work on a golf course.... 'nuff said. :)
  • Yes, best sex ever.

    We've had sex in a hotel swimming pool, in a grassy field in the middle of the day, in a parked car, in a storage room at work.

    It is so hot. Of course you can't really guarantee that you won't get caught, but that's what's so exciting about it.

  • Lowers head...

    When my DH and I first starting dating we did it everywhere. In the bathroom at the mall, in the car driving home, in our car on the side of the road (it was 3am),at a park on the playground, in the bathroom at my last place of employment, various showers, on top of my mom's washer and dyer. I feel ashamed now.

  • The only time we had sex in a public place (by parents pool) we were caught and I think it's scarred us from doing it again, ha ha.

     I have given him a BJ though in the backseat of his sister's car. . . while she was driving it. She was fighting on the phone with her husband and didn't pay a second of attention to us!

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  • My husband used to work for a video store, so one night after he locked up we went back into the porno room and did it on the floor. No chance of getting caught, but still technically public.

    The only other public place we did it was in the limo on the way to the reception... Embarrassed Thank God for tinted windows and a way to close off the driver!!

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  • Several public places. Most recently was about 8am in the water while there were ppl on the beach.
  • Once when we were first dating in an outdoor hotel pool, and once on vacation in Jamaica in the hottub..

    This is such a turn on, but I never know when or where, or how to bring it up to my wife. We live in a pretty densely populated area so I'd not know exactly where to do something like this.

    When we're not somewhere that's out of our routine, it seems that sex is pretty much routine. I'd really like to change that, but don't know how.

     

  • Im a little late to the party but...

    Most recently we rented a boat off of Lake Erie for an hour and went out a few miles. He sat on the seat and I straddled. Talk about a quickie. We were so excited it only lasted a few minutes.

    When we were younger though-- Lake Erie beach, playgrounds,friends houses,off the path of a hiking trail, the public hot tub on our honeymoon, back of the car, the YMCA locker room, his office on his desk, fooled around in the bathroom of our church and once up against the open windown of a hotel room, not public but if someone was looking....

    I kind of miss all that


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