Where are you girls? You both dropped off the face of the board. I see you both on Facebook and have sent you each a message reaching out to make sure you are ok and have not gotten any responses. After being "friends" for nearly 4 years now I find it a little odd that you both left without any word to anyone here. Yes I realize that I do not post often here, but as I said before I do try to check in at least once a day even if it is after midnight when I get home from work. I am sure everyone else is wondering too. I am not trying to be b*tchy or stir up any drama, I am just wondering.
And now Paula has deleted me from FB. I checked earlier today and we were still friends, and now we are now. WOW. Hi Paula!! It is obvious you were here today to see this ::waves::
Re: Val and Paula Callout-Update
I think a lot of people feel the same and it was a huge elephant in the room. There were no big fights like in the past that scared people away so it's left us all wondering what's going on or if something was said to offend someone (although neither of you are the type to be quiet if you were offended). Just weird because you both left at the exact same time.
I will say that I asked Jo about them and she said that Paula is really depressed and doesn't want to be a debbie downer and Val is just too busy.
So Paula, if you are lurking (I am sure you will at some point) maybe the board could help with your depression or get your mind off work. I hate my job but being able to nest helps my mind wonder sometimes when I really need to quit thinking of work.
And Val, get unbusy or just pop in to say hello. Tell us about the house. Something!!!
Co-signed.
I just hope all is well with both of them and nothing was said/done to offend either.
Didn't mean to put words in your mouth I just see those words as interchangeable in my mind.