June 2009 Weddings
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I know there was a lenghty thread about this before, so I apologize in advance for not paying more attention then. I have been on the pill for about 8 years now and have noticed a steady decline in my sex drive since then. I know some of you mentioned that you changed to an IUD and have had a better experience. You would mind sharing a little more info about what kind (copper?) and side effects etc? I am planning to talk to my obgyn next week about this and wanted some more information. TIA
Re: IUD and BC users
If you're having issues with hormonal BC, I would go with the copper IUD. That is what I got when I was six weeks post partum. I can't do hormonal birth control. It screws me up royally. So far, I have had absolutely no issues whatsoever! After insertion I spotted for a few days, and I get a little bit of cervical irritation from the IUD string, but it's honestly nothing to complain about from my end!
If you have any other questions let me know.
:::In My Life, I've Loved You More:::
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Here goes nothing...
I got the Paragard (the copper iud) almost a year ago, and now I LOVE IT. The insertion process was pretty painful (because 1. I apparently have a tiny uterus and 2. I've never had a child, thus, my cervix has never dilated), and my recovery took nearly three weeks.
Insertion is fast and it feels like a strong menstrual cramp, which usually subsides before you leave the office. My pain continued because my uterus was so small and it needed to stretch to accommodate the iud. During that process I was at risk for involuntarily expelling the device (and getting pregnant-- yikes) or continued pain (which would lead to removal). Thankfully, after a few weeks, I woke up one morning and felt like a normal human being. Sex drive back, zero pain, zero worry. My only negative side effect is slightly longer/heavier periods (4-5 days, with 2 days heavy). Totally worth it.
Highly, highly recommend for long-term, low-maintenance, birth control.
I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
Yep... agreed. I have the ParaGard too.
My insertion wasn't painful at all though due to just having had a baby. My midwife, who inserted it, told me I would probably still feel cramping, and I didn't.
I'm sure it varies with each woman though.
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I survived the RoLex wedding and all I got was this lousy husband.
One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico