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Seriously some people (vent)

ERR....I wish people would stay out of the business between J and I.  I LOVE how I got on FB this am to receive a few messages from his friends and family saying how bad I treated him and how he's so much better off without me and that I'm such a horrible person because I cheated on him.  Seriously I didn't cheat, going out to lunch with a friend of the opposite sex is NOT cheating.  J knew about the lunch and its not like I hung out with this friend all the time.  It was someone I re-connected with via fb and we use to be best friends.  The guy is married too, I could NEVER cheat.  People need to stop judging me.  I didn't treat J horriblely, he was never home and when he was, he played the Wii all night.  I understand that right now we are both better off, even though some days I think I'm not and I think that he made a horrible mistake moving out.  I don't like being attacked.  I choose not to respond to these cause it will only make matters worse.  People are playing these childish games and I guess what J doesn't seem to understand is that every text message and fb message I get from ppl, I print off to show what these people are doing to me.  I'm not out there fb messaging his family and friends saying how horrible he treated me and how he never supported anything I did.  The past is the past, you can't change it, you can only learn from your mistakes and move on and that is exactly what I am trying to do.  Sorry I needed a small vent.  This is why I only usually check fb status' from my blackberry, to much drama.  I just need to get to work and have the kids make my day better.

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Re: Seriously some people (vent)

  • It's really ridiculous when people can't mind their own business. :(:(   Sorry you're having to deal with that.  Stay strong!! ((hugs))
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  • People are stoooooooopid!

    That's pretty low to attack you.  We had some friends and their relationship went south and I hate what she put him through.  I saw her at a walleye game this year (this happened two years ago) and I was still MAJOR PO'd at her but he has moved on and it's not my place to reem her out because I only know his side of story.


  • Instead of letting it bother, why don't you block each and every one of his friends and relatives from you FB page.  It's not difficult to do and in the end sounds like it will save you a lot of grief.  As messy as this is getting, there's no reason to have these people on your facebook page or have any access to you at all on FB.
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  • My page is pretty private, all they should be able to see if my profile pic and I think my hometown.  I don't have them on my friends list and the sad thing is that some of his friends would have to know my maiden name since my married name isn't on my page at all.  Part of me wonders if he put them up to it since he flat out admitted that he fb stalks me to see if I'm dating
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  • imageLeighRiehm:
    My page is pretty private, all they should be able to see if my profile pic and I think my hometown.  I don't have them on my friends list and the sad thing is that some of his friends would have to know my maiden name since my married name isn't on my page at all.  Part of me wonders if he put them up to it since he flat out admitted that he fb stalks me to see if I'm dating

    The he is the primary person you should be blocking.  As nasty as this is apparently getting, there is no reason he should have any access at all to your page or be able to search you.

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