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Re: I've been real life defriended
I bet her FUPA's name is Shane, like the gunslinger/drifter of literature.--HappyTummy
I'm sorry, that sucks.
Is she going to tell her husband? If not, how does she plan to explain the defriending?
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I am sorry Winged. I know how much it hurts (for different reasons though). I feel sorry for her because you are awesome and she will not be able to explain this easily to her H.
I think in the end it is better for you to have a clean break. I am sending you Hugz.
Sorry, I'm totally on the Monday couch this week.
I bet her FUPA's name is Shane, like the gunslinger/drifter of literature.--HappyTummy
she is upset i told my H but more upset that i expect her to tell hers to remain friends
ha, and there is the FB defriending
so, um anyone interested in 4th row tickets to see Roger Waters do the Wall?
Aw, that sucks so bad Winged. I think I would have done everything exactly the same way you did in the situation. So if she wants to be the lying jerk in all of this, then that's her prerogative.
Still sucks for you though.
yeah, but it sucks more for her kids and husband. she still believes he'll never find out.
YESSSSSSSSSS, OMG, YES, stupid fetus.
but I'm sorry she defriended you. If she gets the help she really needs, she'll see the error of her ways. She really isn't thinking clearly right now, especially since she's mad at the wrong person--you. She's probably mad at herself but doesn't know how to express it properly. I wonder what lie she'll tell her H and kids why you aren't in their lives anymore.
omg tasty you are adorable.
the concert isn't until november. you could totally come.
i don't know what she'll tell them. especially since we had plans in a few weeks so she doesn't have a lot of time
I think tasty is right. Honestly, if she does eventually tell her H (or he decides he's willing to work on things with her once he finds out some other way) I think you have a better chance at having a friendship with them again then if you didn't confront her about telling him. When she realizes you were being a good friend instead of just smiling and nodding while she made seriously effed up decisions, she will hopefully appreciate that.
Good luck. I can't imagine what you and your H are going through right now
I'm pretty interested to see what story she spins to explain your and mr winged's departure from their every day life. 10 to 1 says she tries to make you look like a jerk to cover up.
I'm sorry you have to deal with this Winged. I hate it when people defriend me on facebook. j/k. Really am sorry though!
Tasty you are too cute! Hoping for a September baby or October?
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The nerve!
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She is STILL texting me crap. "If you see us at voodoofest, don't say anything to us. No point in being nice"
I mean, this is hours later and she is still going on and on.
I have stopped responding.
I hope she gets help, but I am not going to be treated this way.
Sorry to hear that winged. Is her H the type of guy who would just take her explanation for your absence? She isn't concerned that he will ask you guys what gives?
Irish, we both wonder if he will contact us. What may stop that is that he is dealing with depression right now and so he is not reaching out to anyone according to her. He is just going to work and going home and not socializing. So he may not.
Not knowing what she is going to tell him it is hard to know if he would believe it.
I just caught up on the whole story, and I'm so sorry you might be losing people who mean so much to you because you did what felt right to you as both, a wife and a friend. It's possible she will come around, and it's possible she won't, but whatever happens, at least you know you can live with how you handled the crappy situation she put you in.
I think the reason she's still texting you is because she wants to bait you into continuing the conversation--either to make her point, or so she knows she hasn't totally lost you. I'd keep ignoring her for now. You can always contact her or respond later, if there's more to be said and you think she's cooled off.
P.S.: Tasty, you look fantastic!2013 Calendars and More!