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Sorry to bother the local girls, but I just gotta say Dee on the tribe sucks

I am beyond flabbergasted that you were given the role of moderator of the tribe and seriously the board has gone DOWN HILL since you took over. Do you not see the drop in members? participation or are you doing busy asking parenting questions for your imaginary kids? When is your next fake vacation? you haven't posted that you are going somewhere in a while or maybe since I hardly ever go on and almost never open an actual post created by you I have just missed your recent vaca planning. I don't know if you being moderator amazing me or the ass kissing you see on the tribe since you took over. Oh no I don't mean you do any ass kissing I mean all the girls that kiss yours. I can see why you wanted the job so badly!

Just so you know I'm not alone in my thoughts I'll create a poll to show you.

 

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Re: Sorry to bother the local girls, but I just gotta say Dee on the tribe sucks

  • really I think you are a coward. why not just post this on the tribe? The tribe is a great group. we love Dee you do not have to. what did you gain from this but to show that you are a jerk. ... If you do not like her post then do not read them. if you do not like the board then leave.

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  • Grow up.  Better yet, show your face on the Tribe.  It's really easy to hide behind an alias and point fingers.  You're just stirring the pot and then fading into oblivion. Helpful. Thanks a bunch.

    Trust me, I kiss no one's ass and I have disagreed with Dee before.  We're all adults we can have different opinions. I think she sees that.

  • who do you think you are? if you feel this way, why don't you post over on the tribe? coward. dee is a wonderful person who cares about the people in her life & cares about the board.

    the point of a message board is to be able to post about things & agree/ disagree.

    grow up.

  • This is cruel.

     

    This is Schteffy btw. Sorry. I have two avatars.

  • imagemrs condo:

    who do you think you are? if you feel this way, why don't you post over on the tribe? coward. dee is a wonderful person who cares about the people in her life & cares about the board.

    the point of a message board is to be able to post about things & agree/ disagree.

    grow up.

    Ditto!

     You need another option on your poll....one that says just "I like her"

  • I'm very surprised at this post..well I guess I shouldn't be.  I guess it's very easy to be critical of others, especially when no one knows who you are.  I'd like to think that we are all a diverse group of folks with different opinions, different personalities, different economic circumstances, etc.

    If we were all the same, I don't think I'd be able to tolerate the groupthink on the board.  I think we're a good group and despite what you think, Dee has been an excellent moderator.  I knew she was up for the job and would try to do the right thing.

    Everyone has has their blows, hey, we're a group of girls who have been chatting for 5-6 years at this point, there are going to be disagreements.  Those of us who have stuck around move on and can actually be friends/friendly with each other.  We've gotten to know each other well and we do actually care about each other, you excluded I presume? 

    Doing a poll on who likes Dee or not is pretty nasty and I hope it makes you feel better somehow inside.  Being so intentionally hurtful is sad and makes me wonder why you are so miserable that you want to spread it.  Alright, I'm going to go do other things now...like plan my next fake vacation (since I never seem to make it on a vacation either). 
     

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  • imageMonaLS:

    Alright, I'm going to go do other things now...like plan my next fake vacation (since I never seem to make it on a vacation either). 
     

    Mona, I actually just got back from a fake vacation with Dee last weekend.  Can I go on fake vacation with you too?

     

  • Wow!!!  You are just mean and a coward, why don't you show your honesty on the tribe and show us who you are.  I guess you have nothing better to do then to try to make other people feel bad.  Of course in life people aren't all going to get along or have the same feelings about a one another but to go on a message board and post under a name that no one knows is immature and not to mention bitchy!  Karma!
  • Pretty easy to tell who I am.   I agree with the other posters, this is just cowardly.   If you think she is doing a bad job, why didn't you step up to take over?  Grow up and move on.  Don't think anyone would care if you GBCT.   But lucky for you, no one knows who you are.....

  • you're like a person that complains about who got mayor or president but you did not vote. stand behind what you say.

    When someone ticks you off it is nice to know that you talk behind backs... so who ever knows who this person is and you are friends with her... seriously don't doubt that she probably does the same thing behind your back.

    get a life... oh and happy anniversary yesterday??? really must be sad if it really is your anniversary yesterday that is what you decided was your fun night... sad that you envy all the other girls that have husbands/wives/and boyfriends that we actually spend time with on our special anniversarys!

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    Alright, I'm going to go do other things now...like plan my next fake vacation (since I never seem to make it on a vacation either). 
     

    Mona, I actually just got back from a fake vacation with Dee last weekend.  Can I go on fake vacation with you too?

     

     

    Your vacation was real.  Mine was the fake one on the couch.  I'd like to have a "fake" one w/ you guys after this little one makes its appearance!

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  • Mona,  Sami and I are always 10 minutes away from a packed bag to go anywhere!

    You just name the place!

  • If you arent happy with the tribe, just leave. It isnt that hard and doesnt have to be that big a deal. No one is forcing you to be a member.
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  • You are a coward, plain and simple.  Like PGH mentioned, if you don't like the board - leave!  If you have a problem, voice it in the forum about which you are complaining - don't hide behind a pseudonym.

    Sadly, it appears that you never outgrew your playground bully mentality.  Get a life.

  • ::ignoring OP BS:: and ::waving hi:: to some old online friends! Hi tribies!
  • omgggg seriously?!?  why create this post??  you're just ASKING to be flamed!  come on!
  • Hmmm....What is the tribe?
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  • imageCiconrad:
    Hmmm....What is the tribe?

    heh, I was wondering the same thing.

  • imageLucknow:
    ::ignoring OP BS:: and ::waving hi:: to some old online friends! Hi tribies!

    Ditto this.

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    imageCiconrad:
    Hmmm....What is the tribe?

    heh, I was wondering the same thing.

    When TN changed formats a few years ago most of the local girls left to form The Tribe which is just a member only, more private online chat board.  Periodically they take on new members...it was invite only (you had to know someone on there to join) for awhile, but I think that's changed.  Dee is a moderator.  If you page her on here, you might still be able to join.

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    imagesuemconn:

    imageCiconrad:
    Hmmm....What is the tribe?

    heh, I was wondering the same thing.

    When TN changed formats a few years ago most of the local girls left to form The Tribe which is just a member only, more private online chat board.  Periodically they take on new members...it was invite only (you had to know someone on there to join) for awhile, but I think that's changed.  Dee is a moderator.  If you page her on here, you might still be able to join.

    I tried to join a few months ago and she said no.

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    imageHeather&Alexi:
    imagesuemconn:

    imageCiconrad:
    Hmmm....What is the tribe?

    heh, I was wondering the same thing.

    When TN changed formats a few years ago most of the local girls left to form The Tribe which is just a member only, more private online chat board.  Periodically they take on new members...it was invite only (you had to know someone on there to join) for awhile, but I think that's changed.  Dee is a moderator.  If you page her on here, you might still be able to join.

    I tried to join a few months ago and she said no.

    She just said NO.  No reason reason given?  Just NO.  

    That really isnt like her to be so close minded to new members.

    Wow....I wonder why she just said NO. 

  • No, she didn't just say "NO". Sorry, didn't mean it to read like that. She sent me an email saying that you guys were not taking members at the time. I don't remember if there was any other reasoning than that.

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    :(

     

    Really? 

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