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What are your thoughts on this post?
You're welcome for your daily dose of drama from another board. 
http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/42222974.aspx
Re: What are your thoughts on this post?
I read through it and I'm not sure what I think regarding the OP, but I DO know that HS is a complete idiot. She solely posts in an attempt to be bitchy. So because this girl isn't in love with her husband (which is sad, I agree, but sh!t happens) she needs to give him full custody of the kids? Such a drama queen.
I personally think that bad marriage doesn't = bad mother.
As a child of a loveless marriage, it would probably be best for all if they divorced. Divorce does not always equal tainted children. Especially if they are still pretty young and don't have the "I did something wrong to cause this" reaction that older children often have.
Yes, they shouldn't have gotten married. A lot of people should never have gotten married to each other. She was in love with the idea of being loved and let it go too far. She tried to "fix" the marriage by having kids...an all-too common mistake.
I do think some of the responses are crap. But, I've seen those women post in other places and they seem to think that there is no difference in speaking your mind with tact and saying everything on your mind without consequence.
This person only has 2 posts, so it's probably just MUD.
It sounds to me like she just wants people to tell her she's justified in leaving him. Personally, I don't think she ever should have gotten in to the marriage in the first place... But now that it's done, I'm in the "At least put some effort into it and try to make it work" camp. She sounds like a selfish, immature hag to me... Why he's at all interested in being married to her is beyond me... But counseling can do amazing things.
BTW. If she does divorce him, she will do the exact same thing to the next guy. Because it's HER, not him. Girl meets boy, girl gets wrapped up in attention and planning for wedding, girl then wants a baby to get MORE attention, girl puts absolutely no effort into her marriage, and then is surprised when she realizes she doesn't love him and probably never did. Love is not "sparks" and romance... It's a DAILY decision to PURSUE the other person.
Next for attention, she'll develop Munchausen Syndrome. Poor kids, indeed.