St. Louis Nesties
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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My boyfriend and I have are both starting to get into a slum as we find ourselves becoming more successful in our careers and our friends seem to still be in party mode. We want to find friends that are on the same page with us in regards to settling down and focused on their future.
Does anyone have any advice on finding new friends? Has anyone tried any couples friend find sites? (no not swinger's sites, ICK!)
Re: Friends
This is happening to us, too. Only our friends aren't in party mode, they're all having babies!
The best thing DH and I found to do is just say NO! No, we don't want to go get sloshed with you on a Tuesday night. No, we don't want to drop everything and go on a party weekend to a music fest. No, we can't go to Vegas - we're saving for a house. It goes on and on... but eventually they will get the hint.
PinkPearls - Thanks for the advise! I think our plan is to just lay low and do our own thing.
Just out of curosity are you a Delta Zeta? I ask because of your screen name.