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I need a drink!

I am turning down the Denver job today, and I HATE to make this type of call. I know, might sound whiny when there are lots of people who are looking for jobs right now, but it really makes me sick to my stomach. I feel bad b/c I was so sure I was going to be able to accept when I first heard from him, but the past week we've found our situation to be different than we had thought.

DH always has to remind me to look out for myself and not worry so much about letting a company down.

Re: I need a drink!

  • I am so sorry, I understand your stress.  I hate my job and am looking for a new one.  I feel like I am "cheating" every time I interview, and am pretty sure I am getting an offer today or tomorrow and DREAD giving my notice-as this is a small company and they will take it as a personal affront. 

    We can have a big glass of wine together tonight!

    Let us know how it goes.

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  • sorry hun, but if it is the right choice for your family, that is all that matters.
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  • imagehawaiianbride08:

    DH always has to remind me to look out for myself and not worry so much about letting a company down.

    He said it perfectly, I know how hard it is but if you know in your gut, it's not the right one, there's an ever better one out there for you

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  • thanks guys! I have a script written out and I just have to call and get it over with! Waiting until I can leave my office b/c my walls are thin and don't need my coworkers hearing that I've applied to other jobs!!
  • I hope it went well!
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  • Think of it this way- since you turned the job down someone else who probably really wanted that job gets it now! But it still sucks that you had to turn it down. Have a glass of wine with me. :)
  • imagejebuell:
    Think of it this way- since you turned the job down someone else who probably really wanted that job gets it now! But it still sucks that you had to turn it down. Have a glass of wine with me. :)

    That's a good way to look at it - Someone out there will get a job offer today because I turned it down :-)


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