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How do you feel about annual reviews?
I have mine today and my manager always gives us our feedback report to read before we meet with her.
I take things so personal. There were so many nice, positive things said but I always dwell on the negatives or the areas where I can improve.
Overall, I'm happy with my review but I'm going to be so fixated on those negative things, it's hard to celebrate the positive.
Am I the only one? Please tell me I'm not.
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Re: How do you feel about annual reviews?
I feel the same way even though I know they are virtually required to put in some things that "need improvement."
It especially bothers me when I completely disagree, but it is such a minor thing that it's not worth mentioning or complaining about.
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I could do without them (as I sit here with my blank personal review that needs to be filled out soon....).
Honestly ours are a joke. They used to rate everyone in a unit and your rating determined the percentage of the raises available. Then they decided it wasn't FAIR to the people on the bottom or if two people were similar in rating. So now everyone is failing, unsatisfactory or satisfactory. And it has no bearing on the amount of raise we get - everyone gets the same thing.
I've only done about 5 of the 15 hours of training that we're supposed to do each year. So I'm in movie watching, book reading mode until my review. However, that's a joke too. Most of the training isn't really related to our specific jobs and they offer less and less of it each year.
I like annual reviews. I also struggle (or at least really used to) with taking things TOO personally, or getting worked up about things that I feel are inaccurate. I am a person who likes - NEEDS - a little bit of validation and recognition, and I think a review is a great time to tell someone that they are awesome. Especially because at my work - no one is ever told that they are doing a good job, or thank you for going above and beyond, or any special gold stars for any star-worthy work. Maybe I'm too much a Millenium/Gen Y'er in my need for a bit of encouragement, but I do think that it helps me stay motivated.
I got a tiny 2% raise this year, and my "manager" checked off the box in my online file (that I can view) that I was given an annual review - but I wasn't. It makes me mad that I haven't been given an opportunity to discuss this "review" and the 2% raise that went along with it. I want to know what it is that I can do better to earn a better raise in the future, but I know he just picked an option and went with it. I'd rather have nothing, that something that I can't defend.
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This is me and my workplace, exactly!
I would appreciate them if they were more helpful.
I always get tons of positive comments, but the feedback for improvements is never there. I guess it's nice to hear positive comments, but there HAS to be something I can improve on. I'm not stupid enough to think that I do my job perfectly. I would appreciate hearing some constructive criticism so I can improve and learn.
I also get upset over the "goals" my boss sets for me. They are so low that if I didn't reach those goals, I wouldn't be doing my job at all and should be fired. I would like to have something that's more of a challenge to achieve.
Unfortunately, since I work at the U and our salaries have been frozen since 2008, it doesn't matter that I got a glowing review, I still don't get a raise. I would gladly take that "tiny" 2% raise that Anita got ...
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Like some others, ours are a complete joke. They are basically cut and paste year after year. The supervisors are too concerned about being nice and giving positive feedback instead of using them for what I believe they should be, improving your staff. Sure, you should definitely point out the good things and accomplishments of your staff, but we all need a little constructive critism as well. It's such a complete waste of time, every year.
We've been on a freeze for years as well. But, when we get raises, we get them, doesn't matter how your review goes. It's a union thing.