Some people... grrrr

Mimi63

Hey girls... I know I have been pretty MIA lately... with the new job and Aaron in school I feel like I am never online anymore, but I still lurker and trying to respond to posts when I can.  

So about a month ago my MOH (older cousin) and I got into a stupid argument. It was that she wanted me to delete her ex-boyfriend from my FB account and I didn't do it quick enough for her.

She sent me 2 e-mails while I was at work this first day, and then a third one while I was at work the second day bitching at why I hadn't done it yet. Honestly, I got the e-mails at work and didn't think of them at home that night. (I can check gmail at work but not facebook, not a surprise working for a public school system.) I finally got to it soon after and wrote her an e-mail telling her I had done it. 

I hadn't heard from her since, but didn't really think about it since until we were planning wedding stuff we never spoke regularly.

I was out of town with my family this weekend and someone asked a question about one of her FB statuses and I realized that I hadn't seen it. When I got home I looked to see what they were talking about and saw that she had blocked both me and Aaron from her page.. WTF! I can still see her pics and saw that while she still has pictures of her and ex-bf she took down the whole album of my wedding pictures.

I don't even know how to react from now. I have recently learned more about her then I have ever known and until recently I have looked up to her my entire life as she is 9 years older than me (mid-thirties). Wedding planning started to change my mind about her (aka she gave me the bach party she wanted me to have, not the one that my friends told her that I would prefer, which would have been better for me) but I still looked up to her as my only female cousin on that side of the family.

I'm trying to decide if or what I am going to e-mail her. 

Thanks for listening to the vent.... Aaron won't listen to me anymore, hehe. 

katyp51

Hhhmmm this is a tough one. I would wait a few days before I emailed her, that will give you time to think through things and decide what you want to say. If you wanted, you could go ahead and type up what you want to say to her and save it but don't send it. That way if you change your mind, you can just delete it.

melabes9846

How grown up and mature she is. I can't stand when people act like that!! I would be in the same position as you- not sure what to do. On one hand, I would like to send her a nasty email. But on the other, maybe letting it roll off your back would annoy her even more in the long run!!

ashstwrt

That is so ridiculous.  I wouldn't even worry about her.  Maybe it would annoy her even more if you acted like you didn't even notice that you weren't FB friends, you know?

MadeOfAwesome

She's 9 years older than you and acting like this???    First of all, it's not her place to tell you who you can and can't be friends with on fb.  Second, you didn't even have ACCESS to fb to remove him.  I would tell her the grow the eff up and then wouldn't worry about it anymore.  I agree with ash... ignore it.  Don't even act like you noticed.  She's obviously SUPER mature, so just let it go.

pamila51510

I would just ignore her. Obviously she is acting like a preschooler. I know we look up to people when we are younger but when you don't have blinders on (kid blinders) those people sometimes do not turn out the way you thought they actually were in your head it is disappointing.  Sounds like she is trying to get a reaction from you. Pay her no nevermind and move on.