December 2007 Weddings
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DH turns 30 in Dec. I have been constantly asking him what he wants to do, and he wont tell me anything. He's pouting about it, and saying he doesnt need to do anything for it bc he still cant find a job. My plan of getting him a night at a local casino with his friends? Yeah he doesnt want to do that 
SO, I have been feverishly emailing and calling local restaurants to see if they have areas with a TV so he and his friends can have dinner and watch a basketball game on tv. Most have already been booked bc of the holidays parties.
Ugh, I just dont know what to do
Re: Ugh!!!
Would he rather spend it with you? What about just a nice date?
Im trying to plan a guys night the weekend before his birthday, then on his actual birthday DH & I will have a nice dinner date together.
Im just frustrated, bc I want him to be happy and have fun with his friends and its hard bc he is so stubborn in showing his feelings and wants. I think maybe he's feeling depressed about it, bc everyone one else is having big parties or making huge plans for their 30th birthdays and we just cant.