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Family think we are nuts to try to CD

No one gives a positive reaction or even a neutral reaction when DH and I share that we want to try to CD. They just tell us how we are insane and start telling us how much work it is. The funny thing is, the stories I have heard involve washing the diapers in super old school ways. Come on everyone, I will be washing the diapers in my washing machine, not in a soapy bucket in the yard. LOL:)
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Re: Family think we are nuts to try to CD

  • yes! im not even telling most people for this reason! i don't have the patience right now to hear the comments! same reason i'm not telling people that i want to try and go natural for the birth...so much criticism!
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  • my sister and her husband cloth diaper, my brother and his wife cloth diaper. I have a friend who also cloth diapers. Its becoming more and more common. Its good for the environment and definitely monetarily sound. Etsy has some diapers. You can also find a lot on craigslist and http://www.diaperswappers.com. ALSO, this thing is awesome to have:

    http://www.amazon.com/Generic-Cloth-Diaper-Sprayer-white/dp/B002BS1NPK

     

    Good look and stay strong!!

  • I CD and think they're nuts for thinking you're nuts. Wink Show them how cute & functional the diapers are now. There are a million websites explaining and applauding CDs.
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  • I don't understand why people are that way.  Maybe disposables still seem like a novelty?  It's not like it's been that long since EVERYone used cloth diapers.
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  • imageweddingcaketaster:
    yes! im not even telling most people for this reason! i don't have the patience right now to hear the comments! same reason i'm not telling people that i want to try and go natural for the birth...so much criticism!

    I didn't have a natural birth, but i didn't have an epidural.  I had initially wanted one, but things went so fast I didn't get it.

    If I were to have a second child, I wouldn't get an epidural.

  • Can someone point me in the direction of some of these websites about CD?

    I have heard so much, but don't know where to start...

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  • I've seen a couple comments on FB from friends who I never would have guessed to be interested in CDing.  I agree - the "trend" is spreading and I think it's great!
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  • That's so weird!

    You know my mom CD'd, not really because of the environment so much as she says she just couldn't imagine putting plastic on me! Stick out tongue so cute.

    I just think of CDing as more normal, but again, I live amongst a pretty green set.

    I agree though, its really different now! My friend has a newborn and I was checking out the diapers, so cool! She has the G-diapers.

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  • I don't have any kids yet, but am planning on CD when we do.  BIL & SIL are expecting a baby and I was telling them that I'd like to CD.  They both freaked out, saying how gross it is, etc.  Uh...if you think CDs are gross you are in for a big shock when that baby comes!
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  • I'm sorry to hear everyone is being so negative.  Most people we are close to I think would be pretty supportive of CDing, but when we tell people we plan to use EC, about the best reaction we get is a sarcastic, "Good luck with that."  My sister only managed to BF her first child for around a month before he started rejecting the breast because her MIL kept giving him a bottle over her objections (which weren't that strong since she was totally exhausted, but I think that only goes to show the importance of the people around you being supportive of your choices during such a challenging time).  I always used to imagine my parents and maybe DH's parents and a few close friends being at our house for the week or two following birth, but increasingly I think maybe it should just be us and we wont allow anyone over until after the baby is a few weeks old.  I know that a lot of what we have in mind will be really difficult, but it's stuff that people have been doing for thousands of years, so I know it's possible.  I certainly don't need naysayers or temptations around to make it even harder!

    Okay, rant over.  Congrats on going against the (local) grain and standing up for what you believe in.  CDing is a lot easier than it used to be, so maybe when they see you doing it, they will realize how wrong they were.  Or maybe they wont... but at the end of the day it doesn't really matter what other people think. 

  • I honestly believe that if someone would've had the idea for pockets and AIOs earlier, disposable diapers never would've been invented.
  • imagetbearsangel:

    Can someone point me in the direction of some of these websites about CD?

    I have heard so much, but don't know where to start...

    http://www.theecofriendlyfamily.com/2010/07/ive-never-looked-back.html

    CDing is super easy.  I've done it since the day she was brought home from the hospital.

    A big old middle finger to you, stupid Nest.
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    imagetbearsangel:

    Can someone point me in the direction of some of these websites about CD?

    I have heard so much, but don't know where to start...

    http://www.theecofriendlyfamily.com/2010/07/ive-never-looked-back.html

    CDing is super easy.  I've done it since the day she was brought home from the hospital.

     

    Definitely check out the link Pixy provided.  Also there are trial programs available.  We used the trial at Jillians drawers:

    http://jilliansdrawers.com/products/clothdiapers/tryclothfor10/tryclothfor10

     

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  • We recently had our first potty training poop accident and I have to say that was WAY more disgusting than daily CD use. 
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  • And to the OP - people thought we were crazy too, and told us that we wouldnt make it more than 2 weeks.  But that just made us more determined to do it.  We have been using cloth for about 7 months now, and we love it!  And people now keep their opinions to themselves Wink
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  • Thanks Pixy and Olive. I 'get it' a little more now. I really have been thinking about it whenever we decide to have a LO. I just remember my mother using cloth with my younger siblings and having to 'rinse' dirty ones in the toilet before washing and I HATED that.... so I just don't want to get into something that I will end up thinking is more work than it's worth.
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  • Most regular diapers have bleach and chemical additives that are not good for babies, especially baby girls who over the course of the years are going to be introduced to more of these chemicals in products like tampons which increases the risk of female cancers... shrug.  Cloth diapering is definitely the way to go... or at least the biodegradable non bleached alternatives.
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    Most regular diapers have bleach and chemical additives that are not good for babies, especially baby girls who over the course of the years are going to be introduced to more of these chemicals in products like tampons which increases the risk of female cancers... shrug.  Cloth diapering is definitely the way to go... or at least the biodegradable non bleached alternatives.

    Wow, I'm even more thankful than before that my mommy CD'd!

     

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  • Well I have in no way been swayed towards using disposables. I am pretty set on trying cloth. Plus, it's not the first time I have been called a hippie:)

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  • They do have disposables that are made out of biodegradable unbleached material (if you happen to have an nonsupport family member baby sitter who refuses to cloth diaper) They're good to keep a few on hand so no one just goes out and buys something you wouldn't approve of putting on your child. Or for outings.

    Also on a side note they have unbleached tampons and pads by 7th generation. Some Targets carry them and usually any natural food store has them. Otherwise seventh generation online has all of them.

  • I wonder if they do not realize how things have changed. It seems like more people are choosing to CD. If we ever have kids we are going to at least try CD.

     As for the tampons and pads, you can get a Diva Cup or something similar not have to worry about it. 

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  • Wow, I can't believe people are so against it!  Mom CDed all four of us and I always thought disposables were so odd.  If we decide to have kids, I'll CD and Mom will be shocked at the advances that have been made I'm sure.
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  • I don't have kids yet, but I told my family that I plan to CD when we do, and I got the same reaction. Then I took my mom to a store that sells CD's and we talked to the lady who ran it, and now she sees it totally differently. Disposables were way expensive when I was born and she HAD to CD, so she just couldn't imagine why anyone would want to. She didn't know how different they were now. I think it's that way for most people.

    To the poster who needed some resources, check these out:

    www.diaperpin.com

    www.clothdiaperblog.com

     

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  • They don't know what CDs are like now.

    I was discussing CDs w/ family and somebody said, what do they use to keep them together and somebody said, "Pins!"  And I was like, "NO.  They use these things called snappis.  Have you seen CDs recently?"  And of course everyone said no.

  • I live in an area where it's pretty common to CD now. My mom thought things were still in the pin and plastic pants days. My brother told me I would give up because they did after a few weeks but new CDs are so much better. I'm using smartipants. They are AIO pocket diapers and they work pretty well. They are the only ones I've tried but I've seen some great sample packs you can try several different ones and then just buy the ones you like.

     

  • DH just said this weekend, "I didn't have any expectations about CD'ing either way, but this has worked out really well and I don't understand all the negative reactions I got from people. At work everyone acted like we were crazy; I don't get what the big deal was. So maybe it takes  30 seconds longer to change his diaper?"

    The laundry, which I do, has not been a problem either. We are amazed at how easy the whole thing has been. And we're saving tons of money.

    Mama to 2 late-term preemies (7/10 & 11/12) due to HELLP Syndrome.
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