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Hi.
So, I want to thank those of you who replied to my posting below and those that have reached out to me via facebook. I really appreciate all the support!
DH and I decided after MUCH talk that we love each other enough to try and work out our issues together and move on in our marriage. I have started counseling (1st appointment today, actually) and am feeling better about our situation. I am willing to look inside myself and I have discovered things that I have done that may have contributed to an unhappy relationship, as did he. We are working on those via individual and couples counseling.
So, we both have deleted our facebook accounts in order to divert our attention on each other. I think with all the technology today with TV, internet, facebook, DVRs that it's really easy to get sucked in so much that you start neglecting those relationships around you. So, those of you who were friends, sorry! PM me your e-mail or I can give you mine if you would like!
Also, since I no longer have FB, can someone keep me informed of all the get-togethers planned?
Again, thanks for all your support!
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I'm glad you two have come to an agreement and are going to do counseling. I think that's a great first step.
I wish you both the best and I really hope he changes his ways. Please don't hesitate to reach out to any of us if you need anything.
We can most definitely keep you up-to date on the GTG's! I'd love to meet you!
I'm glad your doing whats right by you. Counseling is a wonderful step and I hope you two can repair things.
I truely wish you the best. Keep posting we're always here when you need us.
I already told you on FB and I hope you got it before you deleted it. But I am happy you two are working it out. I wish nothing but the best for you and I will send you a PM shortly, so look out for that.
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Good luck! I hope everything works out for the best for you.
I was thinking about you today.. although I didn't reply to your first post I am glad to see you updated us. I am so sorry you are going through this. Marriage can be very difficult and add in any stress and it can feel impossible. I hope you are and your husband are able to be happy, however that looks!!
I am glad to hear that you two have talked and have come to the agreement to do counseling and both individual and couple counseling. I wish you the best and we are here for you if you need anything.
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Ditto this totally!!
Best of luck to you for the future. I hope you can find a way to work things out.
I am glad that the two of you are willing to come to some sort of plan together for this, like pp have said his actions were not your fault. Please do keep us updated we are all here for you if you need it. I look forward to meeting you at a gtg soon