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BFF is in labor!

I'm so excited I can't concentrate on anything! 

But I could use some advice: What would be one thing I could bring to the hospital that would be a good gift? J9 moms, I'm sure you have some ideas on things us non-breeders wouldn't think about. Thanks!  

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Lucy Elizabeth 10.27.12

Re: BFF is in labor!

  • It seemed to go over well when DH and I stopped at Dunkin Donuts on our way down for my nieces delivery.  My brother and parents had left in such a rush they'd forgotten about breakfast. 

    Congrats on her little pumpkin!  Its really fun having a bday on/right after Halloween.

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    BFP#3 10.2.12 (EDD 6.12.13) MMC 11.24.12 @11.5w, had passed in 7th week
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  • Thanks, JB! Are new moms usually allowed to eat anything postbirth? I've been baking and cooking like a crazy person today, plus we'll have a crapload of candy to get rid of if I have to skip out on trick or treating tonight. 
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    Lucy Elizabeth 10.27.12
  • I'm pretty sure my SIL was able to do whatever she wanted.  She was a rockstar and went totally natural though, if BFF is on meds that will probably play into how soon she can eat.  She was allowed to eat as long as she wanted to during labor (she went for dried apricots, I think they'd packed them in their go bag since they'd keep).  I had to scoot out w/in an hour of the birth to get SILs father (he was flying in from OOT that day, of course)...but I know that when I got back a couple hours later she was scarfing down hotdogs like there was no tomorrow.  Kind of a funny choice, but for whatever reason that's what sounded good to her so people obliged and got it... 
    BFP#1 11.9.10 (EDD 7.15.11) M/C 11.13.10 @5W1D
    BFP#2 2.5.11 (EDD 10.15.11) DS born 9.28.11 due to Pre-E
    BFP#3 10.2.12 (EDD 6.12.13) MMC 11.24.12 @11.5w, had passed in 7th week
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
    My Chart Recipe Blog
    ~All AL'ers welcome~
  • Afterward, there shouldn't be any food restrictions. During labor is up to her doctor. One of my friend's had a doctor that wouldn't let her eat a thing (23 hour labor with no food! How is someone supposed to have the energy to push after that!!). Another friend was allowed to eat whatever she wanted during labor.

    And yay for baby! Hope the day goes smoothly for her!

    We have so much time, and so little to do! Strike that, reverse it.
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  • Hooray for little pumpkins!

    My aunt wanted hot dogs right away too. Probably because she gave up all processed meats during her pregnancy...

    At the hospital I think some sort of treat for mama & family would be nice, but you could also bring "cute" items for the baby (like a stuffed bear...or a black cat, since it's Halloween!).

    I also have been repeatedly thanked for giving diapers as a gift because the new parents tend to run out quickly and don't have lots of time in the first couple of weeks to get to the store. Get a small size too -- my friends' baby is almost three weeks old and still can't fit the "size 1" diapers from Costco that they bought a case of!

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  • Thanks for the advice, you guys! 

    Last update I got from her mom was that she's hanging in there and last time she was dilated 4-5 cm. So I have no idea when baby will actually arrive! I'm absolutely going crazy waiting - cannot relax at all!  

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    Lucy Elizabeth 10.27.12
  • Any updates?  I'm curious what birthday the little one ended up withParty!!!
    BFP#1 11.9.10 (EDD 7.15.11) M/C 11.13.10 @5W1D
    BFP#2 2.5.11 (EDD 10.15.11) DS born 9.28.11 due to Pre-E
    BFP#3 10.2.12 (EDD 6.12.13) MMC 11.24.12 @11.5w, had passed in 7th week
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
    My Chart Recipe Blog
    ~All AL'ers welcome~
  • A little late but here are some ideas if you have not already done something:

    Diapers = gold in our house.  Always a perfect gift.  Depending on the weight of baby though, you will want to pick size carefully.  NB is 5-8 lbs, size 1 is 8-12 lbs so if baby is on the top end of NB size, buy up.

    On another note, it is ironic how having a baby can make you feel completely un-womanly.  It is so easy to feel bad about your appearance at a time when so many people want to visit and take pictures.  A little something to make mom feel beautiful is something not a lot of people think of.  An inexpensive piece of jewelry, favorite product, or certificate for a beauty treatment are all things that can help.  One of the best things I received in the hospital was a box of chocolates and I don't even like chocolate that much! 

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  • She's here! 10/31 9:18pm 7lbs 12oz

     

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    Lucy Elizabeth 10.27.12
  • So precious! What'd you end up getting? Did the labor go smoothly for her?
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  • A Halloween Baby!  Congrats to her! 
    BFP#1 11.9.10 (EDD 7.15.11) M/C 11.13.10 @5W1D
    BFP#2 2.5.11 (EDD 10.15.11) DS born 9.28.11 due to Pre-E
    BFP#3 10.2.12 (EDD 6.12.13) MMC 11.24.12 @11.5w, had passed in 7th week
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
    My Chart Recipe Blog
    ~All AL'ers welcome~
  • I'm going now... but emptyhanded! I did order her a cute little sling yesterday though! 
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    Lucy Elizabeth 10.27.12
  • Congrats mamie! She's adorable.
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  • vh - Labor was not smooth. She wasn't progressing like she should so she got induced and had an epidural. After pushing for two hours the baby was sunny side up and had to be vacuumed out!  And after an episiotomy, bff is not feeling that great. 

    Another pic of my little love:

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    Lucy Elizabeth 10.27.12
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