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Re: Am I outta line? I don't think so.
My son was born in December of last year. No one else on this site is allowed to have a child in December anymore!
My sister, who was born December 1970, wants you all to know that December is her month, and the only reason why anyone has been born in December since then is through her gracious and merciful heart.
I will forward her your thanks.
Wait. What? You're saying you shouldn't go because it will be bad luck because they didn't make you feel needed? I think my head's gonna explode.
Honey, you are so far out of line that you probably can't even see the line anymore.
Just how old are you?
In that case: Dru blows her kisses. Well, raspberries - he hasn't learned kisses yet!
Man you sound like an immature spoiled ass baby skank
Time to put on your big girl panties
I've got your rainbows and ponies right here
All kidding aside if this isn't MUD, have you talked to your H about this and if so how does he feel about it?
As if anything you said would be able to stop us. Just like nothing you say can stop BIL from getting married in OMG December
BAWHAHAHAHAHAHA
Time to put on your big girl panties
I've got your rainbows and ponies right here
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soooooooo......anyone want to take bets on her H flying out to the wedding and never returning? it would be 150% justified.
OP: you're stomping your feet like a little kid. i would understand if they had chosen the same date. if that isn't the case, then all you're really doing is throwing a temper tantrum like a 2 yr old. and i venture to guess that a 2 yr old would throw less of a tantrum than you would.
i can't even fathom refusing to attend a wedding simply because the couple chose the same month. you are being incredibly immature. the family has every right to cease all contact with you, should you decide not to attend.
newsflash: the world doesn't revolve around you.
Without reading all the other poster's comments - yes, you are out of line. Don't look at it as BIL is "stealing" your month - try thinking of it as something you can bond over.
My BFF is getting married the day after my 5 yr. anniversary, and I will be attending her rehearsal on the day of my anniversary. Guess what? I'm thrilled about it - because that's what friends do. I could not be happier that we can (nearly) share our anniversaries.
I don't understand how you've come to the conclusion that you won't attend simply because they chose to be married in the same month. Maybe because it could be more affordable for them on such short notice. Take your head out of your arse. You owe your DH and BIL an apology for even thinking like this.
BWAHAHAHAHAHAAAA! Awesome.
Wait until OP finds out that that the bride is wearing the same gown as her and having the bms in the same colors!!
OP you honestly are a complete asswipe!
Oh she's simple alright.
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That's nothing short of idiotic.
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You're either crazy out of line... or a very boring troll.
You can come up with something better than this.
I won't attend bc I wouldn't feel "right" being there. Its something of a bad omen when you show your face where its not needed, I guess is how I feel about it.
Call me crazy, but I think it's probably a worse omen to skip your husband's twin brother's wedding because they're getting married the same month as you did. Yeah sure, everyone has the right to their opinions and their reasons for not attending a wedding. But be prepared for this to cause irreversible damage to your marriage. Not your relationship with your ILs, because that's not even a factor....it'll be toast after this. But now your husband will know that you refused to go to this wedding for a stupid reason I guarantee he doesn't understand.
Maybe there will be some hot single bridesmaid or something for your husband to dance with, I suppose.
And no worries about your next marriage. You've got 11 more husbands to go before you run out of months.
My thoughts exactly.
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Normally a lurker, but this is ridiculous. By your logic, I should be super pissed at my BIL for getting married in August. And they not only got married in August, they eloped, and got married the day after our 5 year anniversary. Guess I shouldn't be talking to them anymore.
Sorry but you don't own the month of December for weddings in your family. You don't know why they might be selecting next month to get married. It probably has nothing to do with you. For you to not go to the wedding is extremely immature.
How dare you get married on MY birthday!!!!!!
i dont think you are out of line, i think you are WAY OUT OF LINE.
why so petty??? are you THAT insecure? you should grow up, seriously. go to the wedding and stop being a sour puss!
"They are having a gorgeous wedding, way better than mine (bc I'm simple)" you are definitely jealous. you admit that their wedding will be better than yours, you wouldn't say this if you were not jealous.
they are twins, they do everything the same, get over it. you dont sound very perfect either.
My sister got married exactly one year after I did, on the exact same day.
I was her bridesmaid. It meant spending quite a bit of time apart from my husband on the day of our frist anniversary.
It turned out to be a really nice way to celebrate our wedding anniversary. We got to do all the "wedding" fun again, with great food, wine and dancing, surrounded by our family. i asked my sister if we oculd sit together during the reception. she sat Dh at the wedding table and made a toast to us during her speech.
So i could have been a drama queen about it being MY day. But I wasn't, and it didn't matter in the slightest and now we'll always have this cool thing of having the same wedding anniversary.