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Does anyone know how Star is doing?

I haven't been on much, but, I haven't seen anything (not that I expect her to want to hang around here- but, I know some of you guys know her IRL). I really hope she's got lots of family and friends helping her through this. Just thinking "out loud", I guess. :(

Re: Does anyone know how Star is doing?

  • Weird.  I haven't been over here in forever and I just saw this.
    I'm doing okay... I'm not sure what else to say besides that. 
    I started grief counseling last week and that is helping at least talk thru some things.
    I think the last 2 weeks have been harder than the first 2 weeks.  I think its finally starting to set in.  I cry a lot.  I remember him all the time in the most random ways. 
    My birthday is tomorrow and this past week has been full of anniversaries from one month since his death to our 3 year anniversary. 
    I miss him terribly.  My heart just aches.

    I did start a blog for people to keep track of me.
    http://sumstarles.blogspot.com/ 

  • I have been wondering how you are doing as well. Thank you for sharing your blog.
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  • Yes, thanks for sharing. You are a strong woman and your blog is amazing.
    In the end, only kindness matters... -Jewel- Married 5.8.05 Mom to Tahlia Summer - born 6.21.2010
  • As soon as I saw this I was going to post her blog - I was gald to see that she did already. I have been following it for the last couple of weeks - I cry everytime I read it. Star, you really are an inspiration of courage. Let me know if you need anything at all.
  • Wow- I'm so glad you stopped by! I hope you find some solace in the counseling. There's just no way anyone could see something like this coming, and the shock alone would knock a weaker women down, let alone the immense grief to follow.

    I know it sounds trite, but, my heart really does go out to you. Nobody, NOBODY EVER, should have to go through this. Take care of yourself, and well, I'm sure it's not going to be a "happy" kind of birthday, but, I hope it is filled with love and lighter moments.

    Thanks for your blog- I'll bookmark it. Take care!

  • Ahhh I was going to post Stars blog.. BUT SHE'S HERE!!!! 
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  • Star,

    Thank you so much for sharing your blog.  Like others have said you are such an amazingly strong person.  No one should have to go through what you are going through.  We are here for you.  Take care.  Know that your husband is looking down on you and wants you to have a happy birthday.

  • Star I am so glad you stopped by! I am hardly on anymore but I had seen the story of what happened and my heart is broken for you and your family. I can not imagine what you are going through but I do hope you find some peace through the counseling. Please keep in touch. I am book marking your blog too.
  • Thanks for sharing your blog.  You are so strong.  My thoughts are with you.
  • Star, I have been thinking of you often and I want to thank you for sharing your blog.  You are an amazingly strong woman!
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