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I'm drinking. Update to Pervgate. And the reason I'm drinking.

So I spoke with my contact at the school district about the sexist comment and odd arm touching that teacher did to me today. She came to my office to talk about it and was so pissed she yelled. She immediately called the superintendent and then went over to the high school to talk to the teacher and the principal. About an hour later I got a phone call from the principal apologizing for the school and said that the teacher felt very bad and wanted to apologize to me tomorrow. I said that wasn't necessary, I accepted the apology and was sure he meant nothing malicious by it, but that it was sexist and I needed to make sure he knew it was not appropriate, particularly in front of the students. So of course I feel awky that this all had to happen, but I know I did the right thing. I also got a very formal apology email from my contact (cc'd to my bosses) on behalf of the school district.

Then I went over to see the 16 year old I mentor, (did I tell you she got suspended for a really long time and is now at the alternative to expulsion school for beating the piss-literally-- making the girl piss her pants out of fear-out of some girl at school??) The girl she beat up wouldn't come back to school for weeks because she was so embarrassed. Yeah, she thinks she could be pregnant. Jeezy creezy.

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Re: I'm drinking. Update to Pervgate. And the reason I'm drinking.

  • You are a good person and you deserve a drink.
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  • My day wasn't as crazy, but I am drinking too.

    That arm touching thing is extremely awkward.  You definitely did the right thing.

     And I would be skeered of your 16 year old.  But I am intimidated easily.

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  • I wasn't drinking, but now I feel like I should. 

  • See, she's a good kid. Sweet, and funny, but she's quick to anger if someone slights her in any little way. And it takes a physical turn because that's just how everything happens in her life. Everyone around her has no problem beating the tar out of someone that looks at them cross-eyed. I don't know how to relate to that at all.
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  • That's so sad, Kristen.  
  • That's tough about your mentee.

    And I am sorry you were put in an awky spot, but you did the right thing.

  • Thanks. I'm crossing everything that she's not knocked up. The #1 reason she doesn't want to be pregnant because it would stretch out her new stomach tattoo. Lanie. FACE!!
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  • I'm drinking with you, Kristen.

    I must've missed where pervgate was originally mentioned but sounds like you handled it well.

    I'm also hoping she's not knocked up...who wants to see a stretched out belly tattoo when relaxing at the beach or waiting in line for a roller coaster.

    Were you able to hide your dismay when she revealed her #1 reason?

    I'm pretty sure it's pronounced your mom's a moron and if you didn't have your name legally changed by the age of 22, so are you. Unless you're from another continent. -Groomz
  • No. I wasn't. I asked her how she planned to provide for a baby when she was 16, no income, no education.
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  • Drink up!

    When will she find out if she is pregnant?

  • I gave her money to get a test at the dollar store tonight. So hopefully soon.
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  • Hopefully she's not planning to try to provide for a baby and will release it for adoption.
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  • I'm glad you got an apology! 

    You totally deserve a drink.

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  • Ugh, it just breaks my heart knowing that anybody has to grow up in such a harsh environment.  It aint right.
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  • Oh man Kristen. You are a good person and deserved that drink. She's not planning on keeping it is she?

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