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Really?!?! FML!!!

As you may or may not recall, we had 4 weddings this year with 3 of them out of town.  P and I didn't get to take any vacation time to go where we wanted because it was all eaten up by wedding crap.

Well, guess what I just found out unofficially tonight....3 more weddings, all out of town and 2 of them are Hindu family weddings (which is a 3-4 day commitment each).  When and where you ask:  all 3 between the end of June and the end of July in Mississippi, Toronto and Arizona. 

There are going to be some serious conversations about which ones we will be attending and which ones we will skip.   I refuse to spend a month traveling all over the continent for people that I either don't know or barely know.

At least we've already booked our San Diego trip.  

Re: Really?!?! FML!!!

  • I would also feel just as frustrated!  That's so many things so close together.
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  • Hell to the no would I go to Mississippi in June or July.  I'd avoid Arizona for the same reason, plus I'd have a hard time keeping quiet on my opinions some of the state's political issues.  So I'd pick Toronto Big Smile
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  • imagedaves_sweetpea:
    Hell to the no would I go to Mississippi in June or July.  I'd avoid Arizona for the same reason, plus I'd have a hard time keeping quiet on my opinions some of the state's political issues.  So I'd pick Toronto Big Smile

    Unfortunately, Mississippi is the one that I have to go to.  I'm the only BM.

    We really should also go to Arizona but neither of us want to.  That one is still just a rumor so far so I'm hoping we can agree to make an excuse not to go.

    The couple in Toronto, we don't even know so unless the ILs throw an absolute fit, I'm pretty sure we can get away with skipping it too.

    After 4 weddings and 4 deaths this year, I'm having a problem with relating the 2.  That may not make a lot of sense but it made for a pretty rough year.  So the thought of 3 weddings is freaking me out a bit.  Add that to this being the first holiday season without my grandpa and I'm a bit over emotional right now.

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