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Since we are all b!tchin.. but I end with love

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I wanted to thank you all for everything and let you know I was SO not posting for a "hey look at me, my life sucks" response.  I just hit a wall, I'm giving myself til midnight then I will just pick myself up and start fresh tomorrow.  My boss called and offered me some hours, 6am-2pm. 

So I just want to say that I do love my ladies for gtg's and support.  And I love my nesties for listening to me complain and whine, but to be there to laugh with and everything else.  I love my nesties because without them we wouldn't have a tree (Holla Kelly!!  We even got a new bottom section from the company!!).  I love my nesties because when I said we won't have much money for food next week we got 2 offers for Xmas Eve/Day dinners.  (DH has to work Xmas Eve night and Xmas day mid-shift)  I know I'm not on much anymore, but I love you guys.  I really love you. 

xoxo

Banana

Re: Since we are all b!tchin.. but I end with love

  • I don't even know what to say. I am so so sorry this is so crazy and messed up and unfair. I am so glad there is so much support for you from all these awesome woman and my fingers are crossed this all turns around for you guys soon. You are certainly trying your hardest to make things good for you and your family and deserve things to go in your favor for once. Hugs hugs hugs. Vent away anytime you need to <3
  • i couldn't not have said it any better than elisabeth already did so i won't try. i'm so, so sorry and i'm sending you tons of nestie vibes and even more *hugs* 

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  • oh I'm just a mess now..

    K keeps coming over and telling me "it's s'okay"

    ugh.. I think we need to watch an installment of Elf before bedtime.

  • Ditto the other ladies. I hope things turn around for you guys. (((hug)))
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  • Wow. You guys have a lot going on. I'm so sorry. PLEASE don't hesitate to facebook me if there is anything you need. What kind of work still needs to be done in the new place? Maybe Guillermo can help out. Seriously.

    Lots of hugs and prayers :) 

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  • hey girl - 

    hugs! you know how i feel - you are a fabulous mom, a great wife, and you are doing all you can for your family. i'm so sorry this is happening to you guys. and think about what i said, for real. i would love it.

    thats so sweet of kman. take a big hug from me!!

    Wife, mom, attorney, blogger, runner - trying to learn to love all the good things in life!!
    "It's not a sprint, it's a marathon." - Alex & Ani bracelet
    My blog: Dodging Acorns
  • Oh AND

    I love my SS this year (still love Elisabeth from last year!) because without her I wouldn't be getting Xmas presents.  And I know I should be all "well as long as K has stuff, I'm good" but I'm not.  I still love Christmas (and my bday tyvm) and love getting things for ME.  Even if it's something little that might mean nothing to someone else, it means someone was thinking about me.. not everyone else.. but me. :)

     

    Also.. if we do have to be out after 1/31

    Packing party?  anyone in?

  • Totally in for a packing party.  And so would Dan.  And  you know what, if we lived closer Dan would be helping Khris at the new place in a heartbeat!!  He loves his Janabear!

    And so do I.  ANYTHING you need woman.  I'll move hell or high water.

    I love you!!!! 

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  • Packing party yes! I get laid off for the winter so whatever you need, I am around! Even if you want to drop K'man off so you can sit alone in your car for 5 minutes!
  • First of all, i'm in for a packing party.  Second of all if you need ANYTHING, let me know!  Chris is super handy, so if you need help in that department, seriously please let me know.  And my house is always open to you whatever you need....facebook me ANYTIME and I will try to help.  I mean it.  Hugs to you  :)
  • I'm sorry jana. Everyone else has said it best. Please let me know if you need anything. Dh is traveling this weekend but maybe one of the next few weekends he can help out.... he is pretty handy. We are all here for you.
  • love you!

    wish there was something i could say or do to make you feel better. lets try to get the boys together after xmas. :)

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  • note to self:

    so need to stop reading responses till AFTER i put K to bed!

     

    Love all you guys.. again!

     

  • I'm good at painting walls!  Just sayin'...  :-)
  • I'm so sorry you're going through all of this Jana, it's more than anyone deserves! I'm out of work, and after Christmas I'm pretty much free. Just let me know when/where. *Hugs*  

  • Hugs ..we are here for you
  • I'm in for a packing party! If DH wasn't working full time & in school I would send him over to help your DH. If I can be of any help just let me know! And as all the other girls said...if you need anything...just ask!

    Hugs!

  • and i will volunteer myself and jerred for a good day or two of work in the new place if you need it. We remodeled our house in MN so we've got some skills ;-)
    Wife, mom, attorney, blogger, runner - trying to learn to love all the good things in life!!
    "It's not a sprint, it's a marathon." - Alex & Ani bracelet
    My blog: Dodging Acorns
  • We texted earlier, but i wanted to give you another hug.  and you KNOW we are here for whatever you need.  call, text, send smoke signals, whatever, just let us know what we can do.  Love you guys.
  • Ok, I missed something, this is what happens when I don't have much time to check the board...either way, hugs to you my dear and let me know if there is anything I can do!
  • I'm pretty sure I missed something too. I'm sorry you and your family are having a tough time especially during this time of the year. I'll keep you in my thoughts. Hugs!!

    (and I'm glad you enjoyed your gift, I tried to think of something cool and unique, the only thing that came to mind was a big stocking of stuff, enjoy!)

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  • I think I must have missed something too since I am not on here a lot, but I just want to say that I am thinking of you Jana and am so sorry that you are going through such a tough time right now.  Big hugs to you sweetie!
  • I have nothing to add but ((hugs)).
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  • imageKris&Jay08:

    I'm pretty sure I missed something too. I'm sorry you and your family are having a tough time especially during this time of the year. I'll keep you in my thoughts. Hugs!!

    (and I'm glad you enjoyed your gift, I tried to think of something cool and unique, the only thing that came to mind was a big stocking of stuff, enjoy!)

    I had Pam come on and edit my post since I know sometimes people in my past come on here to lurk and of course I don't need THAT drama on top of things..  I couldn't get on myself and edit and I panicked so Pam was able to do it for me..

    But I do want to say you rocked it with my gifts :)  To boot, I am the one who makes sure that 4 peoples stocking at my house are filled.. and never fails I can always hear the whispers on the day we have family Xmas "Did you fill her stocking? I thought you were.. Do we have something to put in there?"  So it just made it even more awesome that it was in a stocking!! :)

     

     

    I thank everyone for everything, and I know we'll get through all this even though right now I can't even see how.  But it's nice to know that people are still around and care and offer to help.  It kills me that we have reached "that point" where we have to ask for so much help..  but it is what it is. 

     

    I seriously don't know what I'd do without you ladies.. 

     

  • I missed this too, somehow.  But I love you, Banana!  Please let me know how I can help!  (((hugs)))
  • sorry things suck for you right now. :-( Let me know if there is anything i can do to help.  I'll even dress P in stripes head to toe and bring her on by if that makes you smile :-)
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  • Hey! Super late but just wanted to add my two cents that I'm sorry things are so rough right now.  I really hope things turn around soon! Hang in there, it will get better - you deserve more!
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