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speaking of a big, giant elephant...

in regards to jaye's post...

i'm most likely going to DD this later, but for those of you that were on the DW board with me, planned your weddings along side me, and have been friends for years now...(and obvs some of you already know this)

but kyle and i are getting a divorce. which really, really, really sucks. i'm okay, bc i've been mentally and emotionally dealiing with this for some time now, but i figured i had to let you guys know eventually.

so there it is. the big giant elephant!

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  • I've been so worried about you and this situation.  You know I'm here if you need anything.  Hugs to you honey and much love. 
  • Wow. I'm so sorry. I hope 2011 holds LOTS of happiness for you. ((hugs))
  • I'm so sorry girl. And I'm here if you need me to. I know it sucks, but even though I don't know the details, I know you are smart and if you are making this decision it will be the best thing for you. And you'll see that this is just gonna make you grow as a person and make you stronger.
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  • I am so sorry to hear this, Samantha!  And I know what you mean about dealing with it.  I shed my tears about my marriage 2 years ago when it started going downhill and I had "moved on" mentally and emotionally by the time it was actually over.  Life is too short to be stuck in a bad marriage.  I wish you the best of luck with moving on!  There's actually a board on here called Starting Over that's a little slow right now since it's new but has some great, supportive posters!  You should come by sometime.  :)

    And if you ever need to rant about something (like the many giant elephant moments that seem to follow divorce) feel free to email me- jebuell at gmail dot com.  You are far from alone in this!

  • Samantha Im really sorry to hear that.  I hope 2011 holds new beginnings and great things in store for you. Hugs!
  • Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry!  We all love you, tons of HUGE HUGS!!
  • oh no!!!  I'm sorry to hear this!  You gotta do what is best for you- lots of hugs!
  • I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this.  I hope that 2011 holds lots of happiness for you.  I'm always here if you need anything.
  • ::Hugs:: I'm so sorry. Here's to a fresh start and lots of happiness.
  • I'm so sorry to hear this. ::Hugs:: Hoping 2011 brings lots of happiness and a fresh start.
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  • So sorry to hear this but I hope 2011 is much better for you. 
  • I'm so sorry you are going through this, I hope the holidays weren't too terrible.  :(  A good friend of mine got married last June and they just finalized their divorce last month.  One thing that has really helped her is a group she joined called Divorce Care.  She was a little intimidated at first since many of the people are older and have kids, but they have all embraced her and given her a lot of love and support.  They have weekly meetings and she now actually looks forward to them.

    Whether you join something like that or not, I hope you are getting a lot of love and support from the people in your life, and of course you can always turn here.  I hope 2011 brings much better things your way!  

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  • So sorry to hear this.  I'm sure you have made the decision that is best for you.  Hope that 2011 brings you much happiness.
  • Reaaaallyyyy!  I'm flabbergasted!  I'm sorry hon, but glad you seem to have a handle on it.  *hugs*
  • Very sorry to hear this.  You're a strong woman, I know you'll bounce back just fine.  :)
  • so sorry about what you are going through. i hope 2011 brings you lots of happiness that you deserve Smile
  • So so sorry. Major hugs.
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  • I'm sorry :(  I hope 2011 brings you lots more happiness and a fresh start. 
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  • I am so sorry Samantha.  I am here if you ever need a friend, but you are a strong woman so I know you will be ok.  ((((hugs)))
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  • **hugs** I'm sorry that you are going through this Samantha.  I'll be thinking of you and wishing you all kinds of positivity and happiness! 
  • Oh Samantha I'm so sorry to hear that. ::HUGS::

     

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  • I know I've already said this we love you and are here if you need anything. I am just over an hour away. You are such an amazing and strong woman Samantha {{Hugs}}
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  • Samantha - I have kinda been MIA the past few months because things have been nuts... I am SO sorry to hear this. I don't know any details and I don't need to know them - but I want you to know that I'm here if you need ANYTHING at all. Probably not much I can do from nowhere-west-texas.......... But if there is something please let me me know!! I love you girl and I have a good feeling 2011 will bring a bunch of amazing things!!!!
  • I'm sorry to hear about this but so glad you are doing what makes you happy! Hope everything is amicable and you know we're all always here for you!
  • I am sorry you are going through this. I really hope that 2011 brings you lots of happiness. {{{Hugs}}}
    Nicole and Michael~Las Vegas~May 31, 2008
  • I had no idea! I'm sorry that things turned out this way, but I guess its better to find this out sooner rather than later.  You are such a strong woman, and it sounds like you're well on your way to living a better life soon.  Wishing you better times in 2011!
  • I'm so sorry love.  Please let me know if I can do anything or if you need to talk.
  • I just wanted to tell you you're amazing. And, of course, I'm here if you need me. Love love love you and can't wait to see you.
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  • I think you rock.  If you need anything, like a vacation to wine country, just say the word. I have room for you anytime.  xxoo.

  • To my real life BFF (nestie bestie just doesn't cut it right now): LISTEN UP. You possess more courage, strength, and spirit in your pinky finger than most people have in their entire body. I am beyond blessed to be a part of your life and I thank my lucky stars that we found each other. I'm here for you- good, bad, and ugly. We will get through this one step (and drink) at a time. Alex and I are here for you always times infinity (do.the.math). LOVE YOU MOST.
    From Oy Vey to Ole!

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    One&Only Palmilla - Los Cabos, Mexico
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