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I'm through with Wal-Fart. Need other recommendations.

After watching the documentary "Wal-Mart:  The High Cost of Low Price", my DH and I were left feeling disgusted by the fact that for years we've been unknowingly supporting a multi billion-dollar corporation that thrives from the suffering of others (their overseas workers, their associates and their families, the communities they come to, the environment, the court system that struggles to keep them in check despite their repeated blatant attempts to avoid any sort of responsibility...the list goes on) so we've decided to buy more of the things we want/need from small businesses in our area that deserve it.  We're struggling financially, but the "savings" just isn't worth it anymore.

We're new to the area (we live on the Charlotte/Matthews line) and are learning our way around but I'm wondering if you have any recommendations on where we could otherwise shop?  What are some good small/family-owned/morally responsible businesses in this area?   Food, produce, home/garden, clothing, gifts...anything.  We really want to do something but don't know where to start.  Thanks all! 

Re: I'm through with Wal-Fart. Need other recommendations.

  • We don't live in that area, but good for you!  This year will mark 9 years since we stepped foot in a "crap-mart"!
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  • I don't have tons of suggestions, but we're trying to do more of the same thing too.  I can't remember the last time I was in WalMart - probably 8 years ago or more.  For restaurants we just generally stay away from chain restaurants (Outback, etc.) and never eat fast food (don't get me started on the negative impacts McDonalds has had on our food supply system) and generally try to go to "neighborhood" restaurants.  We also try to go places like CustomShop that serve local meat/seafood and use local ingredients where possible.  For groceries, we get a fair amount of our food at Healthy Home Market - local chain (3 stores I believe?), mostly organic.  We also go to the farmer's market for lots of stuff - we usually go to the Yorkmont farmers market, but I understand the Matthews farmers market is awesome (all vendors there have to sell products that are from a 100 mile radius from Matthews).  I don't have any ideas for clothes - you can try supporting local boutiques, but they tend to be rather expensive.  I guess a morally responsible thing would be thirft stores, but I've never been able to get into that.  Good luck!  And let us know what you find!
  • PS - For produce, you can also consider a CSA (community supported agriculture).  Check out www.eatwild.com or www.localharvest.org.  Both websites can link you to local farms and their websites, you can buy a CSA share or find out what your other options are.  You can also find local farms that sell local, humanely raised meat on those websites.  Also try www.knowyourfarms.com for a Charlotte local food group.
  • Good for you!  I too have gotten out of most big box stores.  I think the other ladies have given you terrific information for your local area.  Though I have no idea about your specific area, I always try to "think local."  Many communities/new commercial areas these days are being built to accomodate "walkable" neighborhoods.  You'd be surprised at how close things are, but don't really realize it--and hopefully with this mindset you'll "discover" some of the smaller businesses in your area.  Think to yourself--is there anything close enough to walk to.  A mile walk would only take about 15 minutes....and lots of time if you have to "look" for a spot, that mile drive and search for a parking space would take at least 10.  Then up your non-car radius.  We're lucky in that we have bikes and so some of those places that might be out of walking distance, might still be in biking distance (5 miles-ish).  Wear a backpack, and you can carry bigger loads--but the size constraint will also help ask you "Do I really need this?". 

    You can also check your local chamber or commerce or other business networking organizations for other mom-and-pops in your area.

    Good luck!

  • I don't really have any information, but I do applaud you for not using Walmart any more!  I've been very against Walmart for years, but for a completely personal reason.  I know everyone has heard of Rubbermaid, but Walmart and Rubbermaid got into a dispute years and years ago, and Walmart in turn refused to carry their items for a while.  Basically Walmart would only carry certain colors and items and Rubbermaid was trying to offer them more variety.  Well, this disagreement really hurt Rubbermaid, and then Rubbermaid was sold to Newell and the headquarters and large factory (where probably 40% of the city worked) was shut down.

    Walmart is like the freaking plague.

  • This is a great thread! 

    I am amazed at those of you who haven't had to step foot in one in years! Unfortunately, I don't think I'd be able to do that...without just supporting some other big retailer in the end...but anyway...

    I did think I'd suggest finding a local drug store, hopefully there is still one or two left in your area (versus a CVS/Walgreens/RiteAid), sometimes these little local shops will also carry quick/small gift options (I think I've seen vera bradley purses, college team paraphernalia, etc) cards, batteries, etc. 

     

     

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    I did think I'd suggest finding a local drug store, hopefully there is still one or two left in your area (versus a CVS/Walgreens/RiteAid), sometimes these little local shops will also carry quick/small gift options (I think I've seen vera bradley purses, college team paraphernalia, etc) cards, batteries, etc. 

    YES!  ITA...unfortunately, I'm stuck in the chain drug store rut now because of my allergy medicine--but if there were an independent one anywhere on my side of town, I'd be in like flynn.  Up in NY I had an AMAZING local drug store--I could literally do most of my Christmas shopping there--the service was tremendous and the little "extras" they carried were awesome too.  I even changed my commute home (when I drove) to go past the pharmacy when they moved to the neighboring town.  How I miss it.

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    I don't really have any information, but I do applaud you for not using Walmart any more!  I've been very against Walmart for years, but for a completely personal reason.  I know everyone has heard of Rubbermaid, but Walmart and Rubbermaid got into a dispute years and years ago, and Walmart in turn refused to carry their items for a while.  Basically Walmart would only carry certain colors and items and Rubbermaid was trying to offer them more variety.  Well, this disagreement really hurt Rubbermaid, and then Rubbermaid was sold to Newell and the headquarters and large factory (where probably 40% of the city worked) was shut down.

    Walmart is like the freaking plague.

    My DH works in plastics and used to work for a manufacturing company that snagged a ton of extra work making products for Sterilite (Rubbermaid's competitor) because of their dispute with Wal-Mart.  I remember he had heard some details about what went down and, even though it meant more work for his company, was really disturbed by the fact that Wal-Mart could practically shut down a company as large as Rubbermaid.  It was kinda shocking and scary (who's next?).

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    imageKataMarie:

    I don't really have any information, but I do applaud you for not using Walmart any more!  I've been very against Walmart for years, but for a completely personal reason.  I know everyone has heard of Rubbermaid, but Walmart and Rubbermaid got into a dispute years and years ago, and Walmart in turn refused to carry their items for a while.  Basically Walmart would only carry certain colors and items and Rubbermaid was trying to offer them more variety.  Well, this disagreement really hurt Rubbermaid, and then Rubbermaid was sold to Newell and the headquarters and large factory (where probably 40% of the city worked) was shut down.

    Walmart is like the freaking plague.

    My DH works in plastics and used to work for a manufacturing company that snagged a ton of extra work making products for Sterilite (Rubbermaid's competitor) because of their dispute with Wal-Mart.  I remember he had heard some details about what went down and, even though it meant more work for his company, was really disturbed by the fact that Wal-Mart could practically shut down a company as large as Rubbermaid.  It was kinda shocking and scary (who's next?).

     

    It is disturbing.  My hometown still hasn't recovered from it.  But when you're as big as Wal-Mart and you refuse to buy items from a supplier, it really will put a dent in the supplier's bottom line.  To this day, even though Rubbermaid isn't in my hometown anymore, I'll buy Rubbermaid over Sterilite.  I still shop in big box stores, but I can't help it, I love Target.  I refuse to shop in Walmart though.

  • I also think wal-mart is evil, we avoid them as much as possible. Good luck finding local options. I do not have any suggestions for your area, sorry.
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  • My husband and I also don't shop at Walmart but we live closer to downtown Charlotte. We get our produce, eggs, etc from the farmers market (big one on Yorkmont in the winter). We shop at HT since it is a local company. We also use Costco since they have a good reputation and cheaper gas/RX. We go to Dilworth coffee or dunkin donuts since they have fair trade coffee. Gifts are a bit harder, we make some or shop locally. There is a ten thousand villages in Cotswald, Paper Skyscraper on East Blvd, and Green with Envy on Central. We do a lot of thrift stores such as Salvation Army and Restore where you can find good deals(found 60ct LED christmas lights for $3). We also utilize our library since there isnt a bookstore or used bookstore near you. We eat at locally owned restaurants but due to budget constraints we sometimes hit up Subway or something. Let me know if you have any questions about places since I've lived here all my life and may have been there.
  • We also dont shop at walmart ever and sorry to say silently judge everyone of our friends and family who does. Where I grew up we didnt have a walmart. I never stepped foot in one until I was in college. It was such a crazy thing to me. I see no need to go there honestly. Walmart does so much harm to this country I could go on and on. The other places are bad CVS, Outback which we do go local but I dont think getting my Rx at cvs is as harmful as going to walmart to buy everything. Also, the stuff is not quality and really not that cheap. It is always a mess and the sales people are well....ugh down with walmart. this thread made me smile :) 
  • How about Target? I go there all the time- does anyone know if they are a responsible company? I haven't been to WalMart in years!
  • I believe target is I am more of a fan of target. Target comes in and integrates into the community and supports charities as well as schools. They also treat employees well. I also feel safer at Target compared to Walmart. Did you see all the crime that has happened at Walmart and they are not held responsible. Also for those who say they have to go to Walmart this is not true. I went to college in a small town where Walmart was huge but the town revolted and because no one shopped there the Walmart ended up moving. Think about it. 
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    How about Target? I go there all the time- does anyone know if they are a responsible company? I haven't been to WalMart in years!

     

    I don't know if Target it, but I love target!  And I don't care if I get the stink eye for it!  TARGET DOOOOOOGGG!

  • I'm the only person I know that refuses to shop at Wal-Mart.  It's a recent decision of mine, but I feel very strongly about it.  My friends and family agree with/already know many of the horrors Wal-Mart has inflicted upon this country of ours (my parents were small biz shop owners forced out by a national chain location that moved up the street) but they all merely shrug their shoulders and say "I can't imagine not shopping there.  I need the savings."  I try not to judge their choices but seriously...come on.  Where did we shop before they came to town?  I truly believe it's laziness, which is exactly what WalMart preys upon with their business model and marketing.  People don't feel like doing the research to make informed choices, just doing what's cheap and easy.  I know because before I woke up, that too was ME.  :-( 

  • Ok, so I know it's a bit out of your way but if you want something like it you can go to the superTargets around Charlotte. I know there is one in Mooresville and I think there are a few others around there as well. They have the food sections and such but seriously are almost the size of a superwalmart. Also try to look for a farmers market in your area. There are quite a few of them around here.
  • I looked up a few more places in your area and am giving you the information that I am finding  on here.

     Local year round farmers market:

    http://matthewsfarmersmarket.com/

     Also for your meds try going to walgreens instead. They do a lot to help the communities they are in and such. Check out there website for some of what they do.

     Also this is the info for another food store that you can try.

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