Let's spice things up around here!

Boynton1286

What is your favorite sex toy or sex product and why, PIP if you can.

It seems that some of us could use some new spice in the bedroom. DH and I are going on our HM in a month and I could use some new toys for the trip.

 

Boynton1286

I know I have posted this before but it is my fave:

I have the purple one. Great for all parties involved! It is a Passion Party product and I think you can order directly off of their site.

Dyork

Ah I have something similar to that, that I got from a naughty/nice party. I can't look up pics since I'm at work and that'd be aaawwwwwkward.

Me and DH don't use too many toys really, he's very carnal. But I'm sure as time goes on we'll mix things up.

I do love those parties though. They're a lotta fun.

pondering_gal

We also don't use toys, but we need a little spice as well...so I shall be paying attention to this thread

Ashlee, I don't know if I could use those without laughing - they look like bugs lol!

hz80408

pondering_gal:

We also don't use toys, but we need a little spice as well...so I shall be paying attention to this thread

Ashlee, I don't know if I could use those without laughing - they look like bugs lol!

Ditto and ditto!

 The only things we used on a regular basis are condems, and His/Hers KY.  Ben bought me a vibrator at one point and sometimes we'll pull it out while "warming up", but usually not.

 Before the HM I suggested to go to Pleasure Chest or something but we didn't...maybe for Valentines!!

Mia2700

Boynton1286:

I have the purple one. Great for all parties involved!

Oh heyyy!  I have the clear one lol  And yesss it's great for everyone!

I wish I wasn't at work so I could send pics of some of the things we've accumulated over the years. I have a vibe, we have lotions beyond lotions (some for me, some for him, some that taste good, heat, cool, tingle, whatev) we have games; dice, spinners, cards, we also have this kit.. let me explain this kit.. 

Last Vday we bought this ridic kit of "random stuff", literally.. it had a blindfold, games, cards, lotions, massage toys, ..and it had a feather.  I cannot explain what that thing did to the two of us, but it was crazy.  I know, a feather, WTF.. but it's true!  It was a combo of the feather touching the most sensitive places, in the most sensitive way - whew!  And watching him watch the feather move along my body.. ladies.. TMI for the ninnies that shouldn't even be in this post - the feather was enough for O's - for both of us!

pondering_gal

kearstin1218:

Boynton1286:

I have the purple one. Great for all parties involved!

Oh heyyy!  I have the clear one lol  And yesss it's great for everyone!

I wish I wasn't at work so I could send pics of some of the things we've accumulated over the years. I have a vibe, we have lotions beyond lotions (some for me, some for him, some that taste good, heat, cool, tingle, whatev) we have games; dice, spinners, cards, we also have this kit.. let me explain this kit.. 

Last Vday we bought this ridic kit of "random stuff", literally.. it had a blindfold, games, cards, lotions, massage toys, ..and it had a feather.  I cannot explain what that thing did to the two of us, but it was crazy.  I know, a feather, WTF.. but it's true!  It was a combo of the feather touching the most sensitive places, in the most sensitive way - whew!  And watching him watch the feather move along my body.. ladies.. TMI for the ninnies that shouldn't even be in this post - the feather was enough for O's - for both of us!

I don't know how I remember this, but in the movie with Josh Hartnett (40 days and nights, something like that), he got the girl to have the Big O with a feather!


Okay I totally forgot about this cause we've only used it a couple times, but has anyone used handcuffs? Cause I like them...a lot! But used on me, not on him. I don't know why, but I liked that he was totally in control.
(I hope this doesn't make me sound crazy/weird...)

maheard

We are like Kearstin, we have a drawer full of stuff. I think one of the first things we ever got did AMAZING things for our sex lives and its awesome during oral. Its one of the bullets. We actually have this one...

http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/bullet-eggs/sp-bullet-blaster-kit-9170.aspx

And we have a few glass dildos. Ladies if you haven't tried glass you have too. I have had the most amazing O with a glass dildo.. I couldn't find a pic of the one that we have but it looks similar to this..

http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/sp-g-spot-glass-dildo-9931.aspx 

And Brooke- you don't sound crazy/weird. Being able to let your DH tie you up or use handcuffs means you feel safe with him. 

hz80408

wow Kearstin, this kit sounds fun!

I forgot, we have a packet of "Sexy Scratch Offs" which is over 250 lottery ticket style scratch off games.  Super fun!

Mia2700

maheard:

Ladies if you haven't tried glass you have too. I have had the most amazing O with a glass dildo.. I couldn't find a pic of the one that we have but it looks similar to this..

And Brooke- you don't sound crazy/weird. Being able to let your DH tie you up or use handcuffs means you feel safe with him. 

Ok - to both of these - I've wanted to try both and just haven't!!  I have heard sooo many good things about the glass versions, I'm seriously intrigued.  If not too personal - what makes em so much better?!  I mean, I trust you, but it seems odd to me that glass feels better than.. well.. a floppy one! lol

And Brooke, not crazy..!  I've been interested in this as well.  I would think it would be the control factor on both parts, he can do whatev and you have to take whatev, something about that seems hott!!  Are yours pink n fuzzy?! lol

Xan921

pondering_gal:

Okay I totally forgot about this cause we've only used it a couple times, but has anyone used handcuffs? Cause I like them...a lot! But used on me, not on him. I don't know why, but I liked that he was totally in control.
(I hope this doesn't make me sound crazy/weird...)

YOU FREAKING CRAZY WEIRDO! lol jk  I totally like using handcuffs for the exact same reason. 

We also have the "bullet" which is great with or without him involved lol

 

We've also tried anal beads on him which was just kind of awkward.  Apparently you put the smallest bead in prior to him getting hard and then as he gets an erection the other beads will 'suck' themselves up (gosh that sounds gross lol).  Anyway, right as he is about to orgasm, youre supposed to pull the beads out and it gives him this amazingly strong orgasm and feels great.  It didn't work for Jason though.  Has anyone else successfully used them?

Another fun thing to do, is before oral sex, pop an Altoid or a strong mint in your mouth.  The 'cool' sensation you feel in your mouth feels incredible for whoever is receiving oral.

AlwaysABridesmaid...

We also have quite a few things buuuut we don't use them very often anymore. One of the coolest hings we got is "door jams". They are like rope handcuffs that you can stick in doors or windows. They are pretty cool. And bondage tape. I also enjoy DH being in control.

Xan921

kearstin1218:

 

I have heard sooo many good things about the glass versions, I'm seriously intrigued.  If not too personal - what makes em so much better?!  I mean, I trust you, but it seems odd to me that glass feels better than.. well.. a floppy one! lol

I was wondering the same thing too.  I've always used the rubbery ones because I assumed they felt more realistic but never got much out of them.

Dyork

Xan921:

kearstin1218:

 

I have heard sooo many good things about the glass versions, I'm seriously intrigued.  If not too personal - what makes em so much better?!  I mean, I trust you, but it seems odd to me that glass feels better than.. well.. a floppy one! lol

I was wondering the same thing too.  I've always used the rubbery ones because I assumed they felt more realistic but never got much out of them.

Same here. I was actually talking about the glass ones with DH the other night. But I couldn't really explain why they're better bc I've never used one before.

pondering_gal

I'm glad others like the handcuffs too!
Kearstin, they are metal - it's some serious sh*t!


Yea I would think that glass you wouldn't feel it as much, as it is too smooth? That's my thought process at least!

Mia2700

pondering_gal:

Kearstin, they are metal - it's some serious sh*t!

I just LOL'd real loud!

christieep

pondering_gal:

We also don't use toys, but we need a little spice as well...so I shall be paying attention to this thread

Me too!  I keep suggesting it to Ken, but he doesn't take me seriously!  I guess one of these weekends while we are out I will just have to drive us to Priscilla's and take charge of the situation!

maheard

christieep:

pondering_gal:

We also don't use toys, but we need a little spice as well...so I shall be paying attention to this thread

Me too!  I keep suggesting it to Ken, but he doesn't take me seriously!  I guess one of these weekends while we are out I will just have to drive us to Priscilla's and take charge of the situation!

DO IT! Mike always thought I was kidding until I finally brought home something. Now he's the one surprising me with stuff. 

maheard

Dyork:

Xan921:

kearstin1218:

 

I have heard sooo many good things about the glass versions, I'm seriously intrigued.  If not too personal - what makes em so much better?!  I mean, I trust you, but it seems odd to me that glass feels better than.. well.. a floppy one! lol

I was wondering the same thing too.  I've always used the rubbery ones because I assumed they felt more realistic but never got much out of them.

Same here. I was actually talking about the glass ones with DH the other night. But I couldn't really explain why they're better bc I've never used one before.

I am not sure what makes it so much better. Maybe its because its different. The cool thing is you can get them warm , or get them really cold so you have some different sensations.  Its a little awkward at first but I have had some of my most intense orgasms with them. I wish I knew how to articulate it better ..lol..its just one of those things that make you go mmm.. :-)

Mia2700

maheard:

its just one of those things that make you go mmm.. :-)

Sign me uppppp!

grneyz12

pondering_gal:

Okay I totally forgot about this cause we've only used it a couple times, but has anyone used handcuffs? Cause I like them...a lot! But used on me, not on him. I don't know why, but I liked that he was totally in control.
(I hope this doesn't make me sound crazy/weird...)

 I've used them in the past, but not with Eric. He is a state trooper and refuses to bring them into the bedroom, because it makes him think of locking up dirtbags instead of being sexual, lol.

Meagan78

I have a bunch of stuff but my favorite line is by Lelo - soft, environmentally friendly (rechargeable), etc.  Love GiGi and waiting for Sasi to arrive tomorrow.  DH has a *** ring (Bo) but we haven't used it yet.
Http://store.babeland.com/vibrators-premium/gigi+babeland+Gigi&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us&client=safari

christieep

I feel like I should check into the convent!  Although after reading this post I told Ken we need to start trying new things and he fully agreed.  We'll see what happens!

Boynton1286

Xan921:

We've also tried anal beads on him which was just kind of awkward.  Apparently you put the smallest bead in prior to him getting hard and then as he gets an erection the other beads will 'suck' themselves up (gosh that sounds gross lol).  Anyway, right as he is about to orgasm, youre supposed to pull the beads out and it gives him this amazingly strong orgasm and feels great.  It didn't work for Jason though.  Has anyone else successfully used them?

Another fun thing to do, is before oral sex, pop an Altoid or a strong mint in your mouth.  The 'cool' sensation you feel in your mouth feels incredible for whoever is receiving oral.

Anal beads totally freak me out, it reminds me of pull starting a lawnmower. Yikes! I also think that DH would be totally freaked out by that, he likes some perineum fondling but that is as far as it goes. The first time I touched him there I thought he might possibly go through the roof.

I am a handcuff enthusiast! I have 2 metal sets and two cloth sets that are more like bondage cuffs, I love being tied up! I am also a huge fan of a blindfold, the suspense is enough to make me go crazy.

We have a feather but have never used it, I am going to have to give that a shot!

nfp147

We have wedge cushions that allow for all sorts of great angles for both of us.

raineskyy

Not gonna lie.. this post made me wish my hubs didn't work nights I'm totally in the mood.

**TMI Paragraph**We use lots of stuff. We have hand cuffs (metal and fabric), bondange tape, feathers, blindfolds, nipple clamps (not the hardcore ones), I have a gag which is fun when your tied up. haha. c**krings, lotions, lubes, dice, games, doggy style harness, etc wow i'm sounds a little freaky. haha. I really like the wireless bullet. it isn't as strong but it is fun to go out for drinks and think hubby has total control of the situation. lmao. ok **End TMI**

I have always wanted to try a glass dildo. I heard they were the bomb- easier to keep clean too. But I want to go all out when I buy one, but I have yet to convince myself to drop $140 on the one i want. someday I will. lol.

My favorite toy by far though is my hitachi wand. It  is a great toy for us. Esp becuase we work opposite shifts so we usually have opposite sex drives/in the mood times- great fast and still enjoyable foreplay.   http://shop.funlove.com/store/product/33050/HITACHI-MAGIC-WAND-%28VIBRATEX-1/

 

 

ETA: totally forgot to mention our almost free fun time toy. We bought little heart shaped ice cube trays from the dollar store two years ago for v-day and they are so much fun! Regular ice cubes are too large and cold for me. but these ones are perfect. from nip teasing to fun makeout sessions to him dragging the ice down my body. fun cheap simple

jena.n.ross

I love my glass dildo - I haven't made it cold, because just the thought makes my lady bits cringe, but I love to let it sit in hot water for a while, before... or in the tub, it's hot by the time I am

My abs fav by far though, of all things, is a little pocket rocket I got in one of those free kits Adam&Eve offers (ie, you buy $x and get a free gift).  It sells on their site for $10.  

For the ladies that are looking to start off small, I suggest picking a movie together, and watching it.  It gets things started, and "loosens" you up a little, IMO.  

And weird, but I like the KY warming liquid, but we tried the warming jelly (same product line), and it BURNED my lady bits.  Like we put Icy Hot on me.  No bueno.   Ross and I are both dealing with depression, so if one of us wants it, we have to work a little to get the other involved.  Ross is certainly the easiest to convince, but I tell him "hmm... I'm not opposed to the idea, but you're going to have to work for it."  And I get a back rub  And it does work to get me in the mood.  

I do like for him to be in charge often, but there are times I like to be the "aggressor."  We also laugh a lot, which I think is cool  

Mia2700

christieep:

I feel like I should check into the convent!  Although after reading this post I told Ken we need to start trying new things and he fully agreed.  We'll see what happens!

Good for you!!  Make it happen!