WWYD?

marriedchick06

omfg. So my sister does NOT take care of her ***. For example her pack n play looks like *** and its a year and half old. Its dirty and disgusting. Like its gross enough I wouldn't ever put carly in it when she had it. well she came home for 2 weeks and borrowed my p&p a couple months ago bc she was to lazy to bring her own. I get it back and there are a few stains on the bedding part. I brushed it off and just told myself I just wouldn't let her use it again. Well guess who came home 2 weeks ago and didn't bring her p&p. Yup so I ended up letting her use it. Well my niece took her diaper off and got poop everywhere. Suposely my sister cleaned it up but it smells like *** and there are stains everywhere and poop still on the netting. There is also a pink medicine stain on it. I could seriously cry. I have kept this thing spotless and would need it for our next child but I couldn't use it and plus carly still uses one on occasion when we go places. 

 Well she replied to my text and said she would just take this one and give me money for a new one.....Do I say okay? Or do i just try to clean this up and get the smell out the best I can? Or do I just pitch this and fork over the money myself?

MonkeySender

I would take the money from her. That is just rude on her part and I think it's only fair to you if she replaces it.

LisaNowSpitnale

I would take the money but keep that P&P so when ever she stays in town she can use it and you get a nice new one.  I think I would try to clean it up though the best you can, without stressing too hard. 

~Jen

LisaNowSpitnale:

I would take the money but keep that P&P so when ever she stays in town she can use it and you get a nice new one.  I think I would try to clean it up though the best you can, without stressing too hard. 

This. 

Ron*N*Kel

IDK honestly. I would be highly irritated that it was dirty the 1st time around! Did she use a sheet? The baby obviously didn't mean to poop all over it and it probably was disgusting to clean and I agree chances of it coming clean are pretty slim. I for one wouldn't bother to clean it, I'd just throw it to the curb and be done w/ it.

 To be honest I guess it's my sister so I probably would let her know I was upset and then be firm and say under no circumstances is she to come visit w/out her own. Your niece is almost 2 right? She probably won't be in one that much longer anyway. At that age they are getting to big to sleep comfortably in it. 

 When the time comes for the next baby, I'd just buy a new one. If she insists on buying it, then let her, but I wouldn't ask for the money. 

houndbaby

I would just throw it out and buy a new one. I don't think it's worth trying to clean it, and I doubt you would ever get the stains off of the mattress. And I personally wouldn't take the money from a sibling unless they insisted, I just wouldn't feel right about it.

Dreamofmusic768

I would ask for the money to pay for a new one....she is an adult and it is her business to treat her own possessions in any way she pleases...but when you borrow something you need to return it in the condition you got it in....clearly it was not, and IMPO is responsible for replacing it.

MrsJoey

take her money and get a new one.

MrsHoltwick2Be

Take the money!  That's just rude of her to not take care of someone else's stuff.

Fultstobe

If for whatever reason, the situation were reversed, what would you do or expect to be done.  That is what you do.  If you would offer money or just go buy one to replace it if it were your child or yourself that got it dirty, than take the money.  If you would expect her to let it go and not make a big deal, than do that in return.  I personally would take the money but like I said, if it were reversed, I would insist they take money to replace it or I would just go out and buy one and insist they take it.