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we just cannot get along!

I swear H and I have been at each others throats for the last 2 weeks over the stupidest things. We are in a funk of something awful and really right now, I'd just love for him to like leave...((did I really just say that??))Ugh...and I love him to pieces but he makes my life sometimes soo much more difficult than it should be....seriously, a girl can only take so much!

Yah, it's clear...our communication is in the crapper!

 

 

Re: we just cannot get along!

  • Awww.  I think it's clear that you guys need an overnight sitter and need to have some LIsa and Sal time to regroup. 

     

    ((HUGS))

  • I'm so sorry! I think every couple goes through these phases from time to time. I like Jayme's idea of getting an overnight sitter, that usually helps us through funk periods.

    I hope things turn around soon!

  • I agree with Jayme!  Additionally, I think you two deserve some me-time as well as us-time.  Big Hugs!  Hang in there!
  • (((hugs))) I am right there with ya! I swear sometimes I'd be better off as a single mom. I love dh to pieces but he's on my last nerve right now :o( Work is bad enough, I don't need him driving me crazy too!

    Feel free to email me if you want to vent sista! 

     

  • I agree, Mommy and Daddy need some time away! Even taking a relaxing  drive somewhere may help out.
  • All the other posts are correct!

    Happens to me/us all the time. Good thing I work nights and he works days but still it happens. I sent the kids to my mother for their first sleep over at moms new place and it was Celeste's first time sleeping over. Both did good and we really needed that quiet time to get things back in perspective and he even took me to see the house that i was crying over ( its such a shamble house, total crap house). Got me back to reality... and that gesture alone showed me that he does care...and listen.?

  • Lisa,

    I totally understand.  Alex and I have had those moments.  Lately it has been better because my mom takes the baby one night a week overnight.  2 weeks ago, she took him for 2 nights.  It really helped us out.  We had a date weekend and it was like a second honeymoon.  So nice. 

    You definately need some alone time.  if you need a sitter, I will help you out.  :)  *hugs*

  • Yup, it happens to all of us at some point.  MIL took Jake overnight last weekend.  Finally, DH and I had date night and we went to the movies.  Sometimes, we all need alone time with our DHs to just reconnect.
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