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Wicked Vent
I am SO SICK AND TIRED of my sister's shitt. I don't even know WHERE to begin. She's a total trainwreck and she has made it that way, no IFS ANDS or BUTS about it. She is 30 years old and has moved six times in the last couple of years, and always ends up back home. She has had roommates, but every one of them has been not of her liking and she kicks them out or she leaves. One of the moves was to CA where she came back a year later. She came back August 07 to live back at home, and has had FOUR JOBS SINCE THEN!! She is about to start the 4th in a couple weeks. (and in the 3rd job, she switched her shift twice and wanted to switch a 3rd time and they said NO and that's where the big, big trouble began). She's a miserable person ... she thinks the world owes her something, she thinks everyone is against her, she thinks everything should come easy and fast to her without putting in her due time like eeeeeeeveryone else, and she thinks everyone but she is the problem. She's SO whiney, she complains CONSTANTLY, she asks the same questions over and over again on what everyone thinks she should do, she makes the same mistakes over and over and over again, she doesn't take anyone's advice or suggestions, and she keeps digging herself deeper and deeper in a hole. She has no friends, no boyfriend. At one time, she had both. She has found everything wrong with every friend and boyfriend she's ever had. All she has now is her cat (and she even gets stressed about taking care of him because he's a "high maintenance cat") and my parents ... my mother is the HUGEST enabler and is also totally co-dependant with my sister.
Yesterday at my daughter's Baptism, she barely spoke to me at all in the Church, she would barely even look at me (we had a serious conversation about her problems and life in general a couple weeks ago), and then at the party after, she talked to all of my in-laws and husband about her latest problems ... in between fielding phone calls from people and sitting with my mother and talking about her new job's paperwork and her old job that she's getting ready to leave and other things that really had no place at this particular event. She didn't eat anything that I or my husband saw, and she refused to have her picture taken.
Today she had class so my PARENTS went to her apartment and did a ton of the packing and moving FOR HER!!! Oh my God.
I have tried to be there for her, I have tried to listen to her and help her ... she's been very welcomed into my home and life ... but I can't do it anymore ... she just sucks all the air out of the room, she takes away every positive moment that exists, and I can't stand it.
Vent over. Thanks for listening. I'm really not a heartless meanie. =(
Re: Wicked Vent
is her name sara by any chance??? she sounds just like MY EX friend i think they would get along sooo goood let me give her number!!
im so sorry you are going through this!! :-(