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Couples Baby shower ideas

any links to blogs with ideas for a couples baby shower? We want to host one for friends, but I can't convince DH that it won't be really girly and lame. Not really interested in playing games, just ideas for themes/decorations. We're looking to do it in the late spring, so some tables will be outside. Invite list will be about 40 people with around $1,000 to spend. More if needed. TIA!

Re: Couples Baby shower ideas

  • In your price range, it'd probably make the most sense for you to hire a professional event planner, because they're going to have the types of ideas you're seeking.  The Hostess with the Mostess blog is probably your style.

    IMO, the key to co-ed showers is to make them not a shower.  They're cookouts or dinner parties or cocktail parties, whatever works for the couple, and the gifts are treated like an after-thought.  "Please join us for a dinner party in honor of Jill and Thomas' pending arrival" or something along those lines.

  • imageTarHeels&Rebels:

    IMO, the key to co-ed showers is to make them not a shower.  They're cookouts or dinner parties or cocktail parties, whatever works for the couple, and the gifts are treated like an after-thought.  "Please join us for a dinner party in honor of Jill and Thomas' pending arrival" or something along those lines.

    DH and I were thrown a couples shower, and it more or less a big BBQ where I happened to be pregnant and we opened gifts as well. I loved it because I don't really like the games anyways, and DH could socialize and drink a few beers with friends and family. 

  • imageJim&Jaime:
    imageTarHeels&Rebels:

    IMO, the key to co-ed showers is to make them not a shower.  They're cookouts or dinner parties or cocktail parties, whatever works for the couple, and the gifts are treated like an after-thought.  "Please join us for a dinner party in honor of Jill and Thomas' pending arrival" or something along those lines.

    DH and I were thrown a couples shower, and it more or less a big BBQ where I happened to be pregnant and we opened gifts as well. I loved it because I don't really like the games anyways, and DH could socialize and drink a few beers with friends and family. 

    This is kind of what I was thinking. We'll have it at my parent's house, which is on a an acre of land so it lends itself best to a BBQ. The only problem is that they hosted a BBQ engagement party for us and several of the same people will be invited to this baby shower (it's DH's best friends who are pregnant). I'll start to look for chic bbq baby showers (if that even exists...)

  • imageleighanneh:
    imageJim&Jaime:
    imageTarHeels&Rebels:

    IMO, the key to co-ed showers is to make them not a shower.  They're cookouts or dinner parties or cocktail parties, whatever works for the couple, and the gifts are treated like an after-thought.  "Please join us for a dinner party in honor of Jill and Thomas' pending arrival" or something along those lines.

    DH and I were thrown a couples shower, and it more or less a big BBQ where I happened to be pregnant and we opened gifts as well. I loved it because I don't really like the games anyways, and DH could socialize and drink a few beers with friends and family. 

    This is kind of what I was thinking. We'll have it at my parent's house, which is on a an acre of land so it lends itself best to a BBQ. The only problem is that they hosted a BBQ engagement party for us and several of the same people will be invited to this baby shower (it's DH's best friends who are pregnant). I'll start to look for chic bbq baby showers (if that even exists...)

    One thing I thought was cute, and helped to drive home the whole baby thing, was that my Aunt wrapped the utensils, plastic, in cloth diapers that were used as napkins, and then sent home with us. If you have a baby, or have been around one, you know these are invaluable as burp cloths.  

  • What about finding a slightly different theme than BBQ but still something you can grill outside?  I was thinking fajitas with a mexican take on things or maybe a luau with grilled chicken skewers, pineapple, etc.  That might set the party apart from your engagement party.  I helped co-host one couples shower and our theme was "Survivor Baby" (the couple were big survivor fans).  That would work for luau themed food and you could do tiki torches and such outside.  We did have a few survivor type games that were really fun... but I know you said you weren't keen on games.  With that theme you could do some jungle type baby stuff (like a diaper cake with jungle animals, jungle animal cookies)... I'm sure there are some blog posts somewhere with that theme.  Good luck!  I think the biggest thing about a couples shower is having booze... if you've got that, you should be good! haha
  • Ours is going to be a cocktail and light bites party. We were going to have a brunch complete with bloody mary bar, but due to travel plans, changed to dinner. It's "dressy casual" and lots of people plan on going out afterward. Not me, obviously. = )
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