Family Matters
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akt77
Joined on 10-03-2010
21 Points
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Advice Please
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Hi Everyone,
I need some advice. I am getting married in 7 months. And my fiance and I are building a home which should be done in 2-3 months. Well I have been staying with family since my ex cheated on me and I left him in June 09. Well the living situation here has taken a turn for the worst and since last spring when my fiance came into the picture they've been acting like I am a burden but it is getting way worse. (mind you my family is very weird, and can be very jealous, any outsider is usually looked at like competition, like I don't have enough love to go around). So I get along very well with my fiances family. And being my fiance is staying with his family until our home is done they has offered that I come live there. I am sad that things turned out this way with my own family and I am so very greatful for this offer but also a bit scared, any thoughts would be great.
PS, Talking to my family about how I am feeling wouldn't be a good idea because it would be all in my head or my own fault.
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Tulipgal
Joined on 11-07-2007
Florida
3,440 Points
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Why dont you get an appartment and live on your own. Nothing says you have to live with either family. |
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zitiqueen
Joined on 08-21-2003
In a land called Mars where the ladies smoke cigars
23,151 Points
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So you've ended a relationship, moved back in with mommy and daddy, started another relationship and are engaged... all within the past year and a half?
Have you ever been single as an adult? Or lived on your own? |
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fiancee = vag ** fiance = peen ** Babies shouldn't be born with jobs ** **They're called first loves for a reason -- more are supposed to come after. You don't get a medal for marrying your prom date.**  |
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ZestofLime
Joined on 08-05-2008
paradise
30,238 Points
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Rent an apartment and pay for it on your own. You know, like an adult would. |
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fiizzlee = vag ** fiizzle = peen
** Babies shouldn't be born wit thangs **
**They're called first luddz fo' a reason -- mo' is supposed ta come after. Yo Ass don't git a medal fo' marryin yo' prom date. Unless yo ass is imoan. I aint talkin' bout chicken n' gravy biatch. Then yo ass git a all-expenses paid cruise ta tha Mediterranean n' yo ass git ta hook up Jared Padalecki on tha flight over while bustin yo' jammies. But still no medal.
Re: That was quick
I need some advice. I am getting married in 7 months. And my fiance and I are building a home which should be done in 2-3 months. Well I have been staying with family since my ex cheated on me and I left him in June 09.
And this isn't even a year since she busted up with the ex and she's already engaged. Needy and jumping into a relationship much?
Well the living situation here has taken a turn for the worst and since last spring when my fiance came into the picture they've been acting like I am a burden but it is getting way worse. (mind you my family is very weird, and can be very jealous, any outsider is usually looked at like competition, like I don't have enough love to go around).
I for one can't figure out why it is okay for a daughter or son to bring a SO into the house. Why are they permitting them to live there?
Her family is weird? The OP said it all.
So I get along very well with my fiances family. And being my fiance is staying with his family until our home is done they has offered that I come live there. I am sad that things turned out this way with my own family and I am so very greatful for this offer but also a bit scared, any thoughts would be great.
PS, Talking to my family about how I am feeling wouldn't be a good idea because it would be all in my head or my own fault.
Thanks
She needs to take a hiatus from dating but the horse is way out of the barn. Ah, well.
Oh boy......