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Copa/Other gay bar attire??

Does anyone have any suggestions on what to wear to a gay bar here? I know what I'd wear in my old locale, but have no idea what constitutes "Oklahoma Hag" Smile

Will dark jeans, heels, and a sparkly top do the trick or do I need something fancier?

Re: Copa/Other gay bar attire??

  • I wish I had an answer, but I have somehow never been to a real gay bar. =(  (I've been to the Wreck Room, which does have drag shows, but is 18 to enter and not really the same type of scene, I don't think.)  I want to go to a gay bar for my birthday this summer.  Hope you have a great time!
  • Critti---sending you a message via FB (or three) now!
  • imageamanjay:

    Does anyone have any suggestions on what to wear to a gay bar here? I know what I'd wear in my old locale, but have no idea what constitutes "Oklahoma Hag" Smile

    Will dark jeans, heels, and a sparkly top do the trick or do I need something fancier?

    If I'm not too late in answering, then yes, dark jeans, hot shoes, and a sparkly top would definitely be fine. The Copa isn't fancy by any means. Beware the ladies room...

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  • imagefuzzylogic:
    imageamanjay:

    Does anyone have any suggestions on what to wear to a gay bar here? I know what I'd wear in my old locale, but have no idea what constitutes "Oklahoma Hag" Smile

    Will dark jeans, heels, and a sparkly top do the trick or do I need something fancier?

    If I'm not too late in answering, then yes, dark jeans, hot shoes, and a sparkly top would definitely be fine. The Copa isn't fancy by any means. Beware the ladies room...

    Funny story about that---I went to a drag bar at Boys' Town in Chicago once where the doors were labeled "Kings" and "Queens." I literally had no idea which bathroom I was supposed to use. Turns out no one really  cared who went where, but it was interesting nonetheless.

  • imageamanjay:
    imagefuzzylogic:
    imageamanjay:

    Does anyone have any suggestions on what to wear to a gay bar here? I know what I'd wear in my old locale, but have no idea what constitutes "Oklahoma Hag" Smile

    Will dark jeans, heels, and a sparkly top do the trick or do I need something fancier?

    If I'm not too late in answering, then yes, dark jeans, hot shoes, and a sparkly top would definitely be fine. The Copa isn't fancy by any means. Beware the ladies room...

    Funny story about that---I went to a drag bar at Boys' Town in Chicago once where the doors were labeled "Kings" and "Queens." I literally had no idea which bathroom I was supposed to use. Turns out no one really  cared who went where, but it was interesting nonetheless.

    That's hilarious.

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  • imageamanjay:
    imagefuzzylogic:
    imageamanjay:

    Does anyone have any suggestions on what to wear to a gay bar here? I know what I'd wear in my old locale, but have no idea what constitutes "Oklahoma Hag" Smile

    Will dark jeans, heels, and a sparkly top do the trick or do I need something fancier?

    If I'm not too late in answering, then yes, dark jeans, hot shoes, and a sparkly top would definitely be fine. The Copa isn't fancy by any means. Beware the ladies room...

    Funny story about that---I went to a drag bar at Boys' Town in Chicago once where the doors were labeled "Kings" and "Queens." I literally had no idea which bathroom I was supposed to use. Turns out no one really  cared who went where, but it was interesting nonetheless.

    This literally made me lol. Have fun!

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  • imageamanjay:
    imagefuzzylogic:
    imageamanjay:

    Does anyone have any suggestions on what to wear to a gay bar here? I know what I'd wear in my old locale, but have no idea what constitutes "Oklahoma Hag" Smile

    Will dark jeans, heels, and a sparkly top do the trick or do I need something fancier?

    If I'm not too late in answering, then yes, dark jeans, hot shoes, and a sparkly top would definitely be fine. The Copa isn't fancy by any means. Beware the ladies room...

    Funny story about that---I went to a drag bar at Boys' Town in Chicago once where the doors were labeled "Kings" and "Queens." I literally had no idea which bathroom I was supposed to use. Turns out no one really  cared who went where, but it was interesting nonetheless.

    That is great.  l don't know which one I would use, either.  I'd probably just hold it. Lol. 

  • imagecritti710:
    imageamanjay:
    imagefuzzylogic:
    imageamanjay:

    Does anyone have any suggestions on what to wear to a gay bar here? I know what I'd wear in my old locale, but have no idea what constitutes "Oklahoma Hag" Smile

    Will dark jeans, heels, and a sparkly top do the trick or do I need something fancier?

    If I'm not too late in answering, then yes, dark jeans, hot shoes, and a sparkly top would definitely be fine. The Copa isn't fancy by any means. Beware the ladies room...

    Funny story about that---I went to a drag bar at Boys' Town in Chicago once where the doors were labeled "Kings" and "Queens." I literally had no idea which bathroom I was supposed to use. Turns out no one really  cared who went where, but it was interesting nonetheless.

    That is great.  l don't know which one I would use, either.  I'd probably just hold it. Lol. 

    Well, I figured that anyone who accidently walked in on me was either going to be a woman or a gay man, so it was all right either way :)

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