I just need to b*tch

Xan921

So tonight Jason and I decided to go out separate.  Since money has been really tight the last few months, we pretty much spend all of our free time hanging out together in our apartment because we can't really afford to do much else.  Well, tonight we decided to treat ourselves and I really needed a girls night, so Jason went out with his friends and I went out with my best girlfriend.  We were both staying in the same town, just going to different bars.  Fast forward to now, almost 5 hours later; I get home, text him asking when he thinks he'll be home (expecting to hear that he's on his way or will be home shortly) but nope, I get "Ryan wanted to go to a bar by his house too, so now we're out this way"  *Out this way* meaning 45 minutes away which means he's most likely going to crash at his friends house.  I'm just kind of p*ssed off.  1) I don't like staying the night by myself.  Granted, I'm a 26 year old woman and should suck it up, but we live in a crappy area and when he isn't here, I find myself waking up to every single noise I hear.  2) Out of respect, I feel he should have told me before deciding to go to a bar far away.  3)  I specifically left where I was at, so I would get home before he fell asleep.  I thought he was at a bar right down the street from our apartment and would most likely get home before I did.

Maybe I am being too clingy, but it's just frustrating that now, at 2am on a Friday night, I'm sitting in our apartment alone, not knowing if my husband is going to come home tonight or not because his cell phone doesn't get good signal where he is at, so my calls/texts aren't going through.  GRRRR! 

coppcw08

Xan921:

So tonight Jason and I decided to go out separate. 

Ok, I just read through this fast & apparently without paying the closest attention. b/c I totally didn't see the words "go out" at first. I actually said, "What?!" out loud to myself. Scared me girl!

But I get where you're coming from. I'd probably be ticked at Clinton for this too. It sucks that his phone doesn't get a good signal where he's ventured off to. I think I'd probably be more annoyed with that than anything else. I don't feel the need to constantly text/ call my husband, but I like to know that if I needed him or something bad happened, he's reachable. It's 2011 & going completely off the map bugs me. I hope he calls/ comes home soon!

jena.n.ross

Poophead.  For sure.  I'm not overly clingy, but I agree, I think if H were going out of town, he should let the wife know, and I'd be wicked peeved to find out he left.  

This takes me back to shortly after we got married and H disappeared in MA (you know... two STATES away) and didn't think "oh it's 3am I should call my wife."  

Men are asses.  I hope he realizes he's being a poophead.

nfp147

I'd be pissed too about him not coming home and not bothering to consult me about it first.

Dyork

Yeah I don't blame you for being p!ssed either. If Dave we're going out of town with his friends a simple phone call to say "hey, I'm crashing at so-and-so's house" would at least make me feel better.