May 2008 Weddings
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

**Blonde**

Hey hun

You popped into my head earlier today (probably b/c I'm wearing that shirt you sold me), and I just wanted to post to say that I'm thinking about you and hope things are getting better for you.

**hugs**

Re: **Blonde**

  • did i miss something? what happened?
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  • Aww thanks :-)

    imagebuckswife08:
    did i miss something? what happened?

    Yeah I DDed my post.  Pretty much TIP :-  I am currently going to counseling/therapy which H will eventually go with me however i'm not really sure it is going to help us.  We have grown apart and we are no longer compatible emotionally, sexually, mentally etc and are currently and have been living as roommates for several months.  I completely opened up to him on Sunday and after a 2 hour talk that I thought went pretty well ended up with him telling me he was going to be spending more time at work to stay out of my hair and then asked if I wanted him to move into the spare bedroom.  No clue... all I know is I want my happiness back :-

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  • oh my gosh, i'm so sorry! glad you opened up to your H though. i'm sorry his reaction wasn't what you expected.

    you never know how much counseling will help....keep an open mind :) we all go through really really tough stuff (lord knows with my own sexual issues i'm lucky H has stuck it out!) and sometimes we learn a lot an it makes us better people.

    keep us updated. hugs and Drinks

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  • I'm so sorry you're going through all that. Hopefully the counseling will help. Keep an open mind about it, you never know.
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  • I'm glad you had a long talk, but I'm sorry things aren't getting any better. 

    **hugs**

  • I'm sorry to hear that things aren't improving. I hope you continue to go to counseling and are able to make decisions that are best for you.
  • imageKlassyWithaK:
    I'm sorry to hear that things aren't improving. I hope you continue to go to counseling and are able to make decisions that are best for you.
    Ditto... I hope you can find your happy place.
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